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Looking for a problem when none exists A criticism I have of women is that no matter how polite, considerate, or cooperative you are there is this idea that "something is wrong" with a man.. Call it looking for perfection, a deep suspicion or whatever but I've had this happen to me more often than I care to admit. Not going to go over some of my experiences just yet but I'll post a snippet of a conversation I had with a member recently and see what you think: (This isn't the entire email, too lengthy but it progressed into accusations and erroneous comments from her until the end) Her: I owe you an apology. I reviewed your profile just now. The videos I<b> viewed </font></b>must have been from another profile. I distinctly remember them being dated recently in 2018. I receive so many emails. I must have<b> viewed </font></b>a profile and confused it with your email. I do not have multiple partners. I do reserve the right to say I am not interested if someone does. Me: Me: You know I have had women here confuse me with others in the past and normally I don't receive an apology. It is a bit of a double standard as if a man makes the same mistake he's accused of being a womanizer. One thing I've found with some women is that they look for the worst in a man no matter how polite he is; it happens to me more often than I care to admit. But as I mentioned previously I shake it off and move on. I wish you the best in your Adult Dating zone experiences. Her: I ask straight forward questions. This is an adult website. How you entertain it is at your discretion. If someone wants to play with me, I believe I have every right to ask questions about your sexual habits. If you take offense by that, yes it is best to pass me by. Me: asking straight forward questions won’t be helpful if they’re inaccurate. You’ve already admitted you mixed me up with someone else and despite that I DID answer your questions. One thing that we can agree on is moving on. Her: I apologized, yet you continue. I will make so that neither of us makes contact again... All I ask of a woman is to not be so quick to make accusations, especially if your "facts" are incorrect or inaccurate. Don't look for perfection if you're not perfect. Be open, honest, and respectful the same as you expect others to be of you. Sounds simple enough to do but I guess it's still difficult for some to do. Just another "real" thought |
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I have to agree with Lala. Perfect spot to just say..hey thanks for the apology. And that didn't sound like any introductory message exchange..it sounded like an argument.  I'd have said...thanks and been done. Not saying you're wrong, but if you've read through these blogs, you'd find its not just a woman thing. There are plenty of judgemental, and accusatory guys on here too. Sorta like out in the world. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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9/3/2018 7:23 pm |
I agree if the person says sorry then accept and move on..
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9/3/2018 7:23 pm |
"I can tell u the truth a couple of different ways before I'd lie to u!" BS 101 
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9/3/2018 8:44 pm |
Sounds like, people choose to be a little more of an ass when there hiding behind a computer screen. Me I try to treat people the way I want to be treated.
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A criticism I have of women is that no matter how polite, considerate, or cooperative you are there is this idea that "something is wrong" with a man.. ..... My advice: Don't go out of your way to be polite , considerate, nor cooperative with a women. This social concept of being "Gentleman" is kind of ridiculous today. Women are certainly not ladies today by any stretch of the imagination. So if you do get an apology from a woman, say, "Cool" and go away. All I ask of a woman is to not be so quick to make accusations, ...... lol... just forget about that ever happening. Be open, honest, and respectful the same as you expect others to be of you. ..... No... sounds awesome in an ethics class... but not in real life. Sounds simple enough to do but I guess it's still difficult for some to do....... Women don't like being accused of being rude. To them, that's fighting words.
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