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What happened to conversation??  

Bad2theboner1 46F
188 posts
1/3/2016 6:24 am
What happened to conversation??


The amount of time and effort a man takes to get to know me is in direct correlation on whether or not I will meet him. If you can't be bothered to be my friend and talk with me, then don't think that I will want anything to do with you. Saying hello to me and then expecting to meet after that is insane. I need conversation before I meet to see if I even like you as a person. The chemistry between two people is what makes the entire experience. The playful banter, the anticipation, the flirting, a touch on the arm, twinkle in the eye, all that stuff. Shocker, I have to like someone to spend time with them, what a concept. I know it's a sex site, but that doesn't mean consideration and respect should go out the window.

(Yes, my husband knows I'm on here, his profile is D_Goodsex if you would like to check it out.)

EagleSap 60M
212 posts
1/4/2016 4:53 am

Loved your question!
It seems these days, most people don't want to be bothered by casual conversation!? Hell, walk down a busy street and count the greetings you get, either by a simple hello, good day, or even a smile!

I chalk it up as proper manners, which most people don't have anymore, and respect as you stated. Communication is an art, some get lucky and are born with it, most stumble through life using it, even a few go to school to make money with it, but all living things need it!


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