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Thanks for looking... I've been spending time on Adult Dating zone again lately, but I don't seem to be finding the luck that I hoped to have, so I thought I'd try to clarify a bit about the type of mate I'd like to see in my bed when I wake up. I re read my last blog and thought it was pretty good, I actually surprised myself with how accurate my thoughts were. I must have been in rare form that day. I'd like to thank so many people for looking at my profile, but as they can see, I'm not a paid member right now, so I can't message them and strike up a conversation. If I were, I would in a lot of cases. But, I must note, if they were, they could, speaking of course of the Gold Members who are the ones who can actually read what I've written. I have to assume that they take the time to read my profile and decide that they're not seeing what they need to see in order to get that conversation going, so I'm thinking that it must be my poor expression with words. Ah well, I can only try... To those who actually read my profile...send a message and let's chat. I can't so you must. It's a big obligation, I know, but that's just how things work around here. And to those who read my profile, flirt with me and then put me on their hot list, please know that my IM seems to work just fine. I would assume that your Gold membership allows you to send messages, so I'll continue to wait for you to get that far, no pressure. I've often thought that Adult Dating zone is a good place to attract a LTR partner because it is sexually oriented and a healthy sex drive is a quality that's important to me and doesn't seem to be a priority on some of the other mainstream sites. Perhaps what I find attractive is too scary to mainstream AFFers , tho I find that hard to believe  Anyhow, when I think about my ideal bed mate, looks becomes one of the first things I think about. It's not an arrogant or disrespectful consideration, I just like someones looks to be able to turn me on. That's OK, right? I like geeky girls, always have. That nerdy look is fun for me. Girls with innocent expressions and over sized glasses are usually a good facade for wild sexual animals who hide their desires beneath their baggy MIT T shirts, I don't know... speaking of baggy shirts, I love the shy type that hides her killer looks under those baggy sweats, It's always fun to get them off and see what's hidden beneath. I'm not one to turn down a drop dead beauty either, I'm not stupid, but average looks are the biggest turn on for me. A down home cutie with no makeup works just fine for me. I like skinny girls with small boobies, A cups are great, but I never discount skinny girls with big boobies either. Skinny girls with some extra meat on them are hot too, of course, that makes them not skinny, I guess. Curvy girls are soft and fun to rub up against and who doesn't like that, I sure do. I like tall girls but I like shorts girls too and God knows something in between is sexy. Yup tall girls with short hair is a hot look to me, unless she's a tall girl with long hair which is also hot (or a short girl with long hair, OK). I love a girl who can sit cross legged and drape her hair over her nipples and smile seductively, who doesn't? Again, not discount that short haired girl who can sit the same way with an arm draped across her chest in a sexy pose, that's always a hot look. Also I like girls with hair somewhere in between, I just like hair, although an old girlfriend liked to practically shave her hair and I liked that look too even though there was nothing to grab on to... I like the shaved Mons look, it always beings out the inner perv with that little girl image, and I always have fun doing the shaving in the shower in the morning. Never met a girl that didn't get horny having someone else shave her. Of course I like getting shaved too, always happy to give her something long and hard to hold on to while she wields that razor. A steady hand is a good friend sometimes. In all fairness, I always enjoy a girl that is constantly changing her hair style. It's always a surprise when she jumps into bed to show off her new style, and I always approve. And lets not forget the hairy hippie type, I honestly don't mind a hair or two in my teeth, I can always pick them out later. I hope that clarifies my body and hair preferences. I like girls my own age, unless they're younger, I like them too. A little older is great too, but don't expect me to be making concessions on that. So many ads seem to have specific demands with respect to age, and I'm oft disappointed to find that somehow I miss their criteria. "Wanted bi guy between ages of 18-50 or over 60 are all the leads I get. Some weird Karma thing. I know all the women get hit with hundreds of sex starved guys as soon as they log on, and actually getting one that seems attractive to me isn't always easy. Bad odds here. I like couples firstly because I'm bi and couples give me more than one person to play with and secondly because couples always have single girlfriends that need some lovin too, so maybe I'll find my soulmate via third party seduction, gotta try everything. So I hope I've made myself clear here, cuz it's a struggle sometimes. Short hair, unless she's long haired or something in between, tall and skinny unless she's short and skinny or not skinny at all. Small boobies unless they're big boobies or something else. A cups are great but so are B's and C's and D's, you know. Did I mention attitude? Attitude is the most important thing. An adventuresome spirit makes up for all the physical things, a girl with a sane head who thinks sex is a toy to play with and clothes are something that you wear only when absolutely necessary is the best. Well thanks for understanding, wish me Good Luck and Good Luck to you. I'm waiting for you, dream girl, come and get me.... |
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