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Bar Night!!!  

Rubbers4Men 55M/78M
30 posts
4/11/2012 10:50 am
Bar Night!!!


We allow ourselves three bar nights a month, and it works out great for us.

Dee has a youthful inner spirit and is a bit man crazy and highly sexual. He's very social and tends to want to get in some degree of trouble. I, Jay, actually look good for my age. In addition,<b> younger guys </font></b>tend to love me. I'm a bit of a party animal, a good dancer, and hip enough to hang with most of the<b> younger guys </font></b>we meet, even in conversation. So the combination of the two of us works great when we go out.

On our last bar night, we started off at a gay bar and restaurant to have some dinner. I'm known for drinking 151 and Coke, almost like water. So immediately, young guys wonder how someone my age can drink what so few of them are willing to do. After a couple of shots, talking with out favorite bartender there, who use to be our sexy neighbor, and ordering drinks, we head to the dining room. We are regulars there and we have three favorites servers, one lady and two sexy young men, but none of them were working, so we were waited on by someone I knew intimately at one time. I'm also fairly well known in the gay community here, as I have worked at four bars here, so we kept getting interrupted by guys who haven't seen me in a while. Dee was checking out the guys, since he doesn't get out much. And every once in a while, I would get up to hug and or kiss some special guy I saw there, dear friends, favorite formers, etc. Since Dee goes to the restroom every half hour or so, I'm sure he's talking to guys as well. Near the end of dinner, a guy buys us both drinks, saying how great it is to see an attractive, older interracial couple out and about. We talk to him for a while before we head to the next bar.

The next bar is my favorite. I've gone there for almost twenty years now and I use to work there, so everyone knows me. It's like "Cheers" for me. It is also a bit of a raunchy bar, which Dee enjoys. I buys Dee's first drink because I rarely ever pay for mine. My people take care of me. Both sexy bartenders working this night are dear friends of mine, and I am legendary for my tipping as well! Dee not so much. lol Anyway, again I find myself hugging and kissing on some of my favorite men in the bar, and I notice Dee takes a seat near the bathroom. I know there are one of two reasons why, and usually both! So the bartenders and I talk a few guys out of their shirts and Dee comes down to hang with us. Then the music gets kicking, and I ask a few guys to dance with me. Dee's forte is not modern dance, though he could go on "Dancing with the Stars" sometime. Dee notices I have pulled out my secret weapon and decided we should head to one more place before we call it a night.

We head for the stripper bar! Now, I use to date a few employees here, and my legendary tipping gets me all kinds of special treatment here. Strippers bring me my drinks, already knowing what it is. The deejay makes sure every fifth song is something I will dance to. And some of the strippers make their way over to say hi and catch up. Now, Dee and I have different taste in men! Dee likes the skinny, young looking guys. I like them, a little bit older with personality and hair on their face and chest. So Dee is quite happy giving his money away to the twelve or so guys that are working on this particular night. I, on the other hand, am only tipping my three regular guys. Finally, I see a guy who use to bartender here years ago. Still looking good, and hairy! So I bribed him into stripping one time to one song, only took a drink and fifty bucks! But he made so much, he brought me my money back. When Dee notices my secret weapon has come out twice here, he is ready to go... until the guys invite us to an orgy going on after the bar closes. Dee wants to go, but I think it is best that we call it a night.

Let me pass on a little something I've learned over the years. The best way to attract a party is to start with a party of one, two in our case now. A little alcohol and some great music to start you into the groove. Then the gradual addition of eye candy or scenery! People are attracted to people having a good time! So find a place with alcohol and your kind of music, don't be afraid to show you are having a good time, even by yourself, and come off a few bucks. It has always worked for me, and now us!!!

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