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Blogs > verywomanly > Cheap Therapy

Beautiful/Sexy  

verywomanly 56F
67 posts
7/17/2012 1:49 am
Beautiful/Sexy

We all have what I like to call, our "happy triggers" when it comes to the opposite sex. For that matter I suppose even the same sex too. Aesthetically, I personally find MATURE (30+)tall/very tall men attractive. Never fails to attract my eye or attention. I'm 4, 5'9 and big all over. Maybe it's some sort of dominant/submissive or feminine/masculine response coupled with personal preference. Who knows?

So, I had been emailing/txting with a fellow Adult Dating zone'er after being wowed by his profile pic (Yeah, yeah, big dick. No surprise there)I was pretty reseved, due to his age( 27) but he was so engaging, witty and intelligent it was hard not to just..well..like him. As a person. The<b> huge dick </font></b>thing sorta faded into black background..well, gray maybe. I'm not completely immune to the power of the penis, obviously.

Anyway, so we decided to meet for coffee. As our meeting time coalesced I asked for a physical description. We'd exchanged g-rated face pics, and of course had viewed each other's naughty bits on here but I wanted a brief rundown anyway so I could spot him the minute he entered the place. When he said he was 6'4 I about shat myself. Suddenly this man sort of, morphed in my estimation. Went from being, hey he's a great young man..person/personality and I hope we can forge a friendship into, well hello there Mr. Man. Yes, I DO realize that sounds shallow but it is what it is.

Of course we met, it was great (I'll probably write more about all that, later. Actually, count on the fact I will

But as I sit here reflecting, (as I am wont to do) I realized I learned a couple of things about myself. First is, I was/am guilty of ageism. To discount a being due to their chronological standing is pretty confining. And, not in a good, fur lined leather cuffs sort of way.

Second is, the person him or her self, can and WILL confirm or negate previously held certainties of attraction. Going to have to give more thought to discounting men outside of my comfort zone "standards". Sure, use guidelines, but be a bit flexible or lose out, big time.

In a nutshell :

Exceptional people tend to shatter perceptions/prejudices. No matter how deeply ingrained.

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