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Blogs > Touchmymonkeylol > Musings of a Cheeky Monkey

Drama already!?  

Touchmymonkeylol 50M
3 posts
8/2/2012 1:31 pm
Drama already!?

I have been on this site for 2 months now as the monkey and have already encountered drama!

I'm on here to meet women in person; my profile makes no bones about that. I intend to<b> meet a woman </font></b>who has expressed interest for a drink or cup of coffee first, to see what her personality is like, whether there is a spark, and to see if her photo(s) are an acurate portrayal of her (we all know how kind photos can be when taken or edited creatively ).

I visit a chat room regularly to chat with the characters there, and demonstrate my humanity and sense of humour, and to try to convince people that I am, in fact, a nice guy (or at least a nice set of text lines, lol).

I had talked with 2 women in 2 different towns who seemed interesting, and cautiously interested. Recently, I had a devil of a time getting online due to my ISP's crap service and the unstable chat software deployed here, and ultimately gave up for that night. Frustatingly, I had really wanted to chat, so that I could arrange to meet each woman and see what they are like. You know, meet for a coffee and a chat, not a "hi, you ARE as attractive as your pics, let's get it on!"

I was able to get online later, and left an email for each woman explaining the trouble I had, and that I would try again the next evening. Sadly, I had broken a rule about giving out contact info, and was banned from contacting anyone for a day, just as one of the women in question logged into the chat room.

Yes, I am a fool for not being clever about giving out that sort of info, but the result startled me a little! Both of these women are mature (in age at least), and I figured they would both understand that technical problems happen. What I received instead was a jealousy-tinged email suggesting that I was ignoring her in favour of the other woman, and that she wasn't going to accept my baloney. The other woman simply hasn't replied to my email.

What I don't understand is their reactions. I hadn't even set meeting dates with either. The women in the chat room chat, flirt, and send emails to more than one guy in a given chat session, and I haven't noticed any animosity from the dudes, so what gives?

I have things to do tonight, so I won't be in the chat room (or will be much later than usual, depending on my evening). I am just going to have to wait and see what happens next. Will the 2 women ignore me? Will they accept that there was a glitch in the matrix? Dunno.

If there is negative feedback from either, or both, then that solves the problem outright, as I'm not looking for jealous, immature women (I do have standards after all).

disclaimer;
(I was on with a premium membership under a different pseudonym, but that is no longer active or relavent to my current location or circumstances), just sayin'

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