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Musings with The Madam
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Musings with The Madam The cool thing about cuckolding or any other kink is cutting it to fit your needs and desires. Making additions or subtractions as you see fit, to enhance your likes. In another offline chat room I have been corresponding with a woman. She’s been cuckolding for 10 years, and it’s not often you encounter women who are initiating and seeking a cuck. We started speaking, just through casual IM’s on the site, which has increased to personal correspondence through email. We compared notes and experiences, and I discovered she and I shared similar experiences in the discovery of cuckoldry, so I linked her to our blog to give her a better insight of us and what we liked. She was shocked to read that my wife and I are still intimate. By intimate she means encountering in sexual practices together even though she has a regular bull that services her. It got me thinking. So much, I asked my wife about it. Would cutting back or being totally cut off, interest her? Lots of couples do that. My correspondence did, not having any sort of sexual relationship with her boyfriend for two years, even though she maintained a healthy sex life herself, with her bull. I have read about some couples who cuckold while still having sex together, which is baffling to me. But, I think those couples really aren’t cuckolding, per say, but merely enjoying the idea of. My wife was on the fence about it. She enjoys our time together, feeling our bodies naked, and of course, watching me as I tug myself in her presence. But there are times where she enjoys the thought and idea of being totally exclusive to him, with the exception of times after she’s been fucked. And, it’s something she’s voiced an interest in too. . . Her mentioning of abstinence has me thinking. I tend to do that. I tend to think and break down concepts and ideas to a point of where it becomes anal; perhaps cutting it, or thinking that we’re on that exacting path, even though me may be, or not, to that particular notion. Chastity is part of cuckoldry. Most cucks wear devices around their cock which locks it away until the cuckoldress feels it’s necessary to free. It prevents us from masturbation freely. My wife and I don’t practice chastity, per say, in that way, but in a sense we do, through her denial of her body to me. The last time we’ve actually had sex was in June, and our naked times together are becoming hit and miss, with multiple days in between them. But the more I think about it the more our naked time together sort of reminds me of those days when she’d have sex just to ‘please’ me. Honestly, she doesn’t get any pleasure out it, other than the mere plutonic act between us. There’s no orgasm for her. She wants it that way, and hasn’t offered her pussy to me since that day in June. Sure, I touch her where it’s appropriate and kiss her, but there is no release or cumming for her. Just me..? On the other end of the spectrum is the denial and tease factor, which is pleasurable to her. My correspondent thinks it’s selfish of me to partake in her weakness. I find truth in her assessment. My wife grants me masturbation whenever I want. I am lucky, most cuckoldress, including her, wouldn’t grant such a freedom. Her former boyfriend was granted masturbation once weekly without her being involved, ever. So, indeed, I am lucky in that regard. She felt I shouldn’t manipulate or convince my wife to be intimate with me when it’s not initiated by her. ‘Being with a cuckoldress is a privilege,’ she wrote me. She’s right, and even my wife has taken that approach in some fashion over the last few months, using that specific word in regards to me and sex with her. I find the idea of cutting back or total elimination erotic. Every time I read her mails I get erect and the perversions within this circle between my ears starts running super speed. “There are times when I’m there solely for you, but it’s nice to be next you in that fashion,” my wife admitted to me as we spoke of the topic. My correspondent, known simply as ‘The Madam,’ thinks it would add to our relationship. ‘Even though you’ve taken great steps, women who permit such giving to their cucks are still not fully experiencing what it’s like being a cuckoldress. My feeling is once you start this part of your relationship to chastity, it may be weeks initially, then months before you’ll grace her naked body again. Obviously you will still be expected to participate by cleaning her and her bull, but as for the two of you, that may become a distant memory. Once that happens, you, and her, will experience a closer and deeper bond in the lifestyle.’ So, what if she didn’t partake in my masturbation unless she wanted to, in a similar fashion to our own sex? That would certainly cut back on me seeing her naked, as it’s mostly me who broaches the topic with her though my suggestion or subtle hints to include her. To some, it’s playing with fire. To me, it’s pushing the envelope, or adding seasoning to your food. It’s finding the right sexual charge, if there is one here. Would I be the real loser? Perhaps, but perhaps not. There is a possibility there wouldn’t be any interest by my wife and I after we experiment with it, or modify it, to fit our relationship. As for a commitment by her, well, she didn’t say much about it either way. My feeling is that she’ll<b> take the lead </font></b>as she sees fit, as there’s a part of her that’s intrigued by the idea and power associated with it.  Shared wife -evergreenstatewife |
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I always love your blogs when you discuss the details of your arrangement. I know in most "classic" cuckold relationships the male is typically kept in chastity because his performance cannot equal the "bulls" performance. The twist is that in some cases the cuck can do as well as the bull and that complicates things. I would think if a cuck can give an acceptable level of performance, he would not be "excluded". If he cannot deliver the goods, he should remain in chastity unless he is given permission to pleasure himself.
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