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Blogs > 40BATS > Me, Myself and I

The Oral is an Art  

40BATS 54F
133 posts
4/22/2013 6:38 pm
The Oral is an Art

This just something that popped into my head. I often get requests for eating my pussy, and I am most flattered by it. But I also see that these men who request the opportunity to taste me, also make it abundantly clear that their skills are "second to none".

To me, oral is an art...a skill that is used and refined. It is customized to the individual receiving it. A man may think his skills are great, but how many of you pay attention to your partner's reaction? What works for me may not work for another woman. I may want a rougher technique than your last lover, or vice versa.

Gentlemen, how many of you have been with a woman who could not orally please you? In her mind, she has done it many times and believes her skills to be "second to none". But, if you are going through the motions and not "advising" her, then you do both of you a disservice.

In saying that, women (and men) must be more receptive to change, to ideas. As funny as it may sound, talking during eating can be a good thing. One word answers can make or break the moment. Oral as an art can mean the difference between having a single performance or an encore.

dickencider2006 71M
188 posts
9/17/2013 2:25 pm

 Bats, I cant agree with you more. Just to illustrate, a few years ago I participated in a small orgy. One of the women gave me a bj, and just prior to that told me her husband says she gives the best bj's. Well, let me tell you, it was so weak, I kept thinking, has her husband ever HAD a good bj?..I felt sorry for him, thinking he was getting the best. I kept telling her to suck harder, lol, she tried, but I was not impressed, to be honest. Just goes to show ya, everyone has their own definition of what's best...for them.


40BATS replies on 9/17/2013 7:57 pm:
Exactly!!! And that story is both funny and sad. Maybe her hubby was trying to make her feel good.

bigblk2011 78M
85 posts
5/25/2013 9:30 am

 I love the smile of a woman pussy on my face
Bigblk bjp


jaymad19 40M

5/11/2013 7:05 pm

 Agreed! Everyone is different and ones ability to read their partners body language and adjust to it, testing and learning what makes them moan, jerk, or get wetter. One of my favorites as well!
Life is but a dream to me...!


ovy101 78M
623 posts
5/5/2013 2:17 pm

 You are right about it being an art and I have been lucky to have momen teach me how to do it. And yes your pussy is so fine.


rm_Bikebladeski 59M
31 posts
4/28/2013 9:33 am

 I'll say that talking and eating is a REALLY good thing. Lots of practice, soft feedback before a loud O. All that in pursuit of the next encore that you would want ... what a goal
- Bike


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