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Here is a discussion about some of the issues encountered with chat rooms. There are some interesting comments and I gather you will be more than welcome to contribute anything you wish. Room Owners and being God
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Here are a couple more Bans. It is unclear what the violations were. Do not seem to violate site or room rules. For more Bans you can visit the room moderators site,,Best of the Best Senior Moderator,,,12/7/2012 1:12 am,, banned ******...just being a room troll not listening(my note: Not listening is bannable?) Senior Moderator,,,10/25/2012 4:48 pm,,, Banned *** Room Drama was asked to stop with his comments to Sister Room Owner and then started arguing with *** (my note: Keeping the room comfy for Sister Room Owner?)
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Another ban,,, odd how this Senior Moderator arrives at his decisions to ban Senior Moderator ,,10/28/2012 3:15 am banned ****for harrasing ****** was asked to stop he made various comments listed "in fact i don't fucking care Senior Moderator you can stick this room ban me now" and ill see Co Room Owner in another room and tell her about you" and "what a poor job you are doing" he was asked to read the consent rule
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Celebrating 50,000 views!! It may not mean a lot to some, but back on Nov 26, 2012 I made my entry into "blogland". My first post was Just sharing. As of this morning there have been over 50,000's views of it. It is mostly what I would refer to as an "informative" blog. Its character is far different from my other offerings since I started. This many views does seem to be proof that my intended message is getting out to those that I wanted it to. I especially want to thank the members of the DG Chatroom management and their supporters (DG is defined in the above post) for their visits to the blog and inadvertent support of the blog. [image]
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Be careful what you say, seems a very protective Senior Moderator,, although is historically not as protective of regular room members Senior Moderator,,,10/25/2012 3:09 pm Banned ****** has been warned more than three time about his comments last straw when he asked ******* if Senior Moderator/Co Room Owner ever showed on cam. (my note.. Does anyone know what the "bannable" offense was?)
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I did a quick review of the,NEWBIES..... WELCOME!!! SAY HELLO HERE!!!!~ thread on the Daddy's Girls! (AGE Friendly) Discussion board. Of the last 20 ladys that posted on to it, 20 profiles. Ten of these profiles are no longer active, turned off or non existent currently. This just in slightly over a one month period. I did a similar review awhile back, seems to be an ongoing trend with this room
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OBSERVATION to share Right now,, DG is only occupied by one Moderator , no other members. A direct competitors room has 28 people in it, including "DG Regulars" and one DG Moderator (different than the one in DG). Another sign of things nose diving I guess.
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I know it is over a month since his post, but I would like to clarify what was said about me by superstud. Yes it is true I talked with him after he was banned from DG and removed as a mod. I can only assume that I was the only mod to do so, as he claims. but he also says that I "bluntly accused" him and confronted him and blamed him about spreading things to others. Pal, you and anyone who knows me can’t really say im confrontational if I can avoid it. When my back is to the wall and others are being attacked, sure I’ll chime in. but I don’t go for the throat the way stud implies. i'm not denying that I can be a bitch, simply clarifying that in this instance, I wasn't. I don’t have a record of any conversation like what he describes occurred between us. Our last IM conversation was on August 13, 2012. I have a record of all my IM conversations, dating back 2+ years, with none deleted, on my honor. It was about some girl that was mad and him and calling him a dick in the room. I can only assume it was pre-banning. So he wants me to go into his case? I will do so as concisely as possible, although you’ve shown it a few times in your blog, as have others who have tried to attack us. Here is what happened, as best as memory serves: We were in DG’s moderator room. We were having a senior mod meeting. I honestly don’t recall what specifically had been discussed, but it was a nearly 2 hr meeting. At some point, while deep in discussion, superstud’s name popped onto the member list, but there was no “…has entered the room” to alert us to his presence. At the time, given the increased tension of the things we were going through as a room, it appeared like he was spying on us. he said nothing when he appeared, or when we noticed him. his name appeared as quietly as it appeared. When hours later our boards were being blasted by a cut-n-paste copy of info from the meeting, specifically the part just before we noticed him in the room, it only fed our belief that he had been ghosting the room and was feeding info to those who were attacking us. His banning was a snap and rash decision we made based on the (very little) information we had at the time. If you have read pal’s blog, look for the long cut-n-paste that involves multiple DG senior mods. I believe I’m listed as Sr. Mod #3, the one who first noticed stud’s name appear on the list. A portion of our meeting reached people it shouldn’t have, and none of the senior mods were responsible. At the time, it seemed so clearly what had happened. We later down the road learned that while it was his name in the room, it was not him personally doing the ghosting. 2 former mods admitted to being responsible. he was truly blameless and was banned wrongly. despite how things appeared to us in the moment, we know now he did nothing wrong. Stud asks a good question: why wasn’t he asked back as a mod? I have a copy of a conversation with the room owner (dated 17 October, 2012), and it was specifically about asking him back into the rooms, and renewing his role as a mod. Why didn’t it happen, I don’t know. I had no part in the apology letter, or any communications with him after that point. I can't comment on what I didn't have a hand in. The ban we issued to him was a snap decision, and was made poorly. It isn’t easy admitting mistakes, and even admitting it doesn’t fix it. I know once we learned the truth, many of us felt ashamed of what had taken place. Again, it doesn’t fix it, but our fast judgment in his case is something I will regret for a while. I’ve told the truth, stud. If you have proof of me confronting you, and being a major bitch, please share it. I don’t have a copy of anything beyond that last conversation. But unless you have proof, please don’t colorize me in any light that isn’t true. I’m done my part here, admitting mistakes and failures in all my posts here. When I’m not being attacked, I try to give everyone a fair shake if I can. pal, we do not inadvertently support your blog. we monitor it frequently, as you are so apt to do to our moderator message boards. monitoring and visiting/supporting are two different things, but the site isn't equipped to differentiate.
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This is an open reply to Travie’s letter responding to my letter. I don't know where she got the idea that I was calling her a bitch or major bitch as she implies. This is what I said about talking to her when I was trying to find out what was going on and why I couldn't get in DG or KR rooms.: I IM'd her and asked if she was having trouble getting into DG. She replied to me " WHY DID YOU SEND EVERYONE A COPY OF OUR MEETING? NOT, did you do this? Or were you in the room when we were having a senior mod meeting? She and the other senior mods had already decided I was guilty and that was the end of that situation. She is the ONLY one that spoke to me after I was banned, the rest of them totally snubbed me, and that was to bluntly accuse me and demand an explanation as to why I did it. You said more but I forgot what exactly was said because I was so upset. One thing you should have learned about me is that I don't lie nor do I exaggerate about what happened or what was said. You stated: "Our last IM conversation was on August 13, 2012. I have a record of all my IM conversations, dating back 2+ years, with none deleted”. I too went back and looked up our conversation history and I too couldn't find anything since the date you mentioned. There is an obvious computer glitch that occurred. Please stop and think what you are saying! Although there is no record or proof as you say of what was said. There is no way you can convince me or anyone that reads this that you and I have not spoken to each other on IM not even once in over 8 months from the date you mentioned to the date you spoke to me after I was banned. I don’t think you are a bitch! I once considered you and the other mods of DG and KR true friends of mine. There is one thing that IS a bitch, and that is having people I considered my friends turn on me so viciously and accusing me without merit or explanation, not even giving me a chance to understand what happened and why. Then about a month after being banned, I was accused of more crimes that I was innocent of. THEN to be threatened and punished MORE if I dared tell anyone about how I was mistreated by the room owner and the senior mods, THAT Travie is a major bitch!!!!!
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I know it is over a month since his post, but I would like to clarify what was said about me by superstud. Yes it is true I talked with him after he was banned from DG and removed as a mod. I can only assume that I was the only mod to do so, as he claims. but he also says that I "bluntly accused" him and confronted him and blamed him about spreading things to others. Pal, you and anyone who knows me can’t really say im confrontational if I can avoid it. When my back is to the wall and others are being attacked, sure I’ll chime in. but I don’t go for the throat the way stud implies. i'm not denying that I can be a bitch, simply clarifying that in this instance, I wasn't. I don’t have a record of any conversation like what he describes occurred between us. Our last IM conversation was on August 13, 2012. I have a record of all my IM conversations, dating back 2+ years, with none deleted, on my honor. It was about some girl that was mad and him and calling him a dick in the room. I can only assume it was pre-banning. So he wants me to go into his case? I will do so as concisely as possible, although you’ve shown it a few times in your blog, as have others who have tried to attack us. Here is what happened, as best as memory serves: We were in DG’s moderator room. We were having a senior mod meeting. I honestly don’t recall what specifically had been discussed, but it was a nearly 2 hr meeting. At some point, while deep in discussion, superstud’s name popped onto the member list, but there was no “…has entered the room” to alert us to his presence. At the time, given the increased tension of the things we were going through as a room, it appeared like he was spying on us. he said nothing when he appeared, or when we noticed him. his name appeared as quietly as it appeared. When hours later our boards were being blasted by a cut-n-paste copy of info from the meeting, specifically the part just before we noticed him in the room, it only fed our belief that he had been ghosting the room and was feeding info to those who were attacking us. His banning was a snap and rash decision we made based on the (very little) information we had at the time. If you have read pal’s blog, look for the long cut-n-paste that involves multiple DG senior mods. I believe I’m listed as Sr. Mod #3, the one who first noticed stud’s name appear on the list. A portion of our meeting reached people it shouldn’t have, and none of the senior mods were responsible. At the time, it seemed so clearly what had happened. We later down the road learned that while it was his name in the room, it was not him personally doing the ghosting. 2 former mods admitted to being responsible. he was truly blameless and was banned wrongly. despite how things appeared to us in the moment, we know now he did nothing wrong. Stud asks a good question: why wasn’t he asked back as a mod? I have a copy of a conversation with the room owner (dated 17 October, 2012), and it was specifically about asking him back into the rooms, and renewing his role as a mod. Why didn’t it happen, I don’t know. I had no part in the apology letter, or any communications with him after that point. I can't comment on what I didn't have a hand in. The ban we issued to him was a snap decision, and was made poorly. It isn’t easy admitting mistakes, and even admitting it doesn’t fix it. I know once we learned the truth, many of us felt ashamed of what had taken place. Again, it doesn’t fix it, but our fast judgment in his case is something I will regret for a while. I’ve told the truth, stud. If you have proof of me confronting you, and being a major bitch, please share it. I don’t have a copy of anything beyond that last conversation. But unless you have proof, please don’t colorize me in any light that isn’t true. I’m done my part here, admitting mistakes and failures in all my posts here. When I’m not being attacked, I try to give everyone a fair shake if I can. pal, we do not inadvertently support your blog. we monitor it frequently, as you are so apt to do to our moderator message boards. monitoring and visiting/supporting are two different things, but the site isn't equipped to differentiate.
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This is an open reply to Travie’s letter responding to my letter. I don't know where she got the idea that I was calling her a bitch or major bitch as she implies. This is what I said about talking to her when I was trying to find out what was going on and why I couldn't get in DG or KR rooms.: I IM'd her and asked if she was having trouble getting into DG. She replied to me " WHY DID YOU SEND EVERYONE A COPY OF OUR MEETING? NOT, did you do this? Or were you in the room when we were having a senior mod meeting? She and the other senior mods had already decided I was guilty and that was the end of that situation. She is the ONLY one that spoke to me after I was banned, the rest of them totally snubbed me, and that was to bluntly accuse me and demand an explanation as to why I did it. You said more but I forgot what exactly was said because I was so upset. One thing you should have learned about me is that I don't lie nor do I exaggerate about what happened or what was said. You stated: "Our last IM conversation was on August 13, 2012. I have a record of all my IM conversations, dating back 2+ years, with none deleted”. I too went back and looked up our conversation history and I too couldn't find anything since the date you mentioned. There is an obvious computer glitch that occurred. Please stop and think what you are saying! Although there is no record or proof as you say of what was said. There is no way you can convince me or anyone that reads this that you and I have not spoken to each other on IM not even once in over 8 months from the date you mentioned to the date you spoke to me after I was banned. I don’t think you are a bitch! I once considered you and the other mods of DG and KR true friends of mine. There is one thing that IS a bitch, and that is having people I considered my friends turn on me so viciously and accusing me without merit or explanation, not even giving me a chance to understand what happened and why. Then about a month after being banned, I was accused of more crimes that I was innocent of. THEN to be threatened and punished MORE if I dared tell anyone about how I was mistreated by the room owner and the senior mods, THAT Travie is a major bitch!!!!!
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A room update After looking at the Moderators support of the Daddy's Girls! (AGE Friendly) Discussion Boards. It shows that 10 of the Moderators have not posted in the discussion board in more than a month,( 2 in over 14 months and two have no record of ever having posted) in support of the room. I posted a similar review earlier in this blog and it seems that Moderator support is deteriorating faster. And a quick review also shows not much support or posting from Room Members. This disinterest seems to reflect that DG is seldom adorning the Top Interest Group Chat Rooms list.
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Nice Pal
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Just a reminder of the Sites Chat room rules How do the above bans square with these rules? Adult Dating zone chatroom rules (excerpted from the Best of Best group) Chat Room Rules - Here is what NOT to do, and what will be grounds for a ban: Harassing, threatening, degrading, intimidating, victimizing, or other wise abusing an individual or group. (Hate speech on the basis of age, gender, ethnicity, disability, religion or sexual orientation is unacceptable.) Interrupting or repeatedly posting off-topic comments to disrupt a topical conversation. Selling, advertising or otherwise posting commercial solicitations, including web URLs. Posting any URL's regardless of the intent or content of the site. (Except where otherwise noted.) Posting any contact information (email/instant messenger address, home phone/address, etc.). Posting or advertising parties, meet and greets or any other function Posting text, photos, images, or other content that's protected by intellectual property rights, including, but not limited to, any copyright, trademark, rights of publicity, rights of privacy, or other proprietary rights. Posting content that promotes, demonstrates or otherwise provides illegal instructional information - how to shoplift, how to hack a site, etc. Attempting to collect other chatters' usernames, passwords, or other private, personal information such as telephone number, email/instant messenger address, home address or full name. Posting another members' personal information (name, email/instant messenger address, home phone/address etc.) transmitting or attempting to transmit a virus to other chatters. Impersonating or misrepresenting yourself as an employee of Adult Dating zone, its parent company or affiliates. Allowing or instigating arguments to escalate into threats, harassment, or to become violent in nature. While squabbles may occur between members, they must remain civil. Flooding of the room (continuous posts of the same content). Hacking Speaking a language other than one specified in the title of that room. Multiple violations will result in deletion of accounts and any other accounts connected to this member. Previous violations will result in future violations being treated more swiftly and severely.
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ANOTHER Moderator gone Seems another Senior Moderator has gone from DG. Reason is not known. But what is curious in this post,,,, farewell to our sweet Luscious. saying farewell to her, no room Management people have posted anything to the Moderator (as of this posting anyways). A sad "normal" for them
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WOW that is quick,, the Senior Moderator was deleted from their moderators chat room,,,Best of the Best, but as its usual sloppy self, still shows in the DG room as a moderator
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A little while back ( see some of the previous posts) I was banned from this site as well as another person who posted less than complimentary things about a member of DGs Managementin this blog. I was reported for “abuse” in another persons blog as was the other person. It turns out it was reported by a Moderator of DG. When the site did review the “allegation” it was disclosed that the DG MODERATOR had lied, in both cases and I was reinstated. I do not know the status of the other person. It has come to my attention that the same thing is happening to a member of a competitors chatroom. There are no true “issues” just another bunch of out right lies apparently in an attempt to “get back” at a former moderator from DG . When the banned person tries to clear things up with the site , that person again gets an “abuse complaint”, resulting in another site ban. Here is the ultimate way of handling things,, if DG is having a problem,if a person is not in the room, they seek them out and they just use the site system and issue false allegations to “get rid” of problems. I leave it to you to make up your own minds.
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REFERENCE MY POST 11/16/2013 9:37 pm I have been advised that it is now thought that the other BAN (S)mentioned in the Competitors Room were not done by the person alleged in my post. So I hereby apologize and rescind that portion of the above post
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ROGUE MODERATOR? This is a fairly old excerpt that shows the paranoia of DG room management. They decided to move bans to an alternate venue to hide their activities. This pits moderators against moderators. Senior Moderator be careful who you talk to we have a rogue mod Senior Moderator,,,Room Owner and i have known for awhile Senior Moderator,,,, we will talk in (altenate chat facility) not in rooms or all meetings or anything of importance Senior Moderator,, it sucks that it has come to this
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Well this may be of interest. Actually is educational. Please visit, and decide. Warning for all guys
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Is it confusion, lack of communication or what? A moderator posted this in Best of the Best, the Daddy's Girls! (AGE Friendly) Moderators group. Oddly enough, no one has answered him in that post. Moderator,,,,, 12/6/2013 2:42 pm,,,, Where's the Group I just came into the Group area and have been frequenting the group ( my note Best of the Best, ) more lately, but it's gone? Did someone do something wrong? Or is this an Adult Dating zone overhaul that occurs once in a while? It's a concern, that's all.
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This was posted in the Moderators chat room (see link, BEST of Best above) prior to this blog hitting 30,000 views. Now that it is at 66525 Views if they still think the same way? Senior Moderator 1 (29F) yeah **, i dont think many of us care anymore. lots of people flock to a whining child. [ 7:54 PM ] Senior Moderator 2 (60M) **** i totally agree with that, [ 2:33 AM ]
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There seems to be a big change in Daddy's Girls! (AGE Friendly) MODERATORS. Three MODERATORS, including the Senior Moderator/ Sister Room Owner have been removed from the MODERATORS list for Daddy's Girls! (AGE Friendly). And the ROOM OWNER for DG has been removed from the MODERATORS list from the Sister room. I have no details, but it is a huge change. This is provided since the changes would not be made public otherwise. You can also see these changes if you review the Members list in Best of the Best, the MODERATORS group.
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Another BAN from the past,, do you understand the reason for the BAN? It is being rude, but is not a violation of site or room rules. Senior Moderator,,, 11/3/2012 2:26 am banned ***** interupted me and ****asked him to not do that and he said fuck you to ****
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