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Where all life begins...
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Where all life begins... A day or two ago I was having a conversation with a friend of mine. Over time we have enjoyed the benefit of each others company, and know many of the intimate details of each others lives. She had commented to me that one of her recent partners had expressed a lack of interest in<b> performing oral </font></b>sex. Now being the enlightened lady that she is, her point of view was that if you don't want to do it you should not, and they moved on to other more mutually enjoyable activities. (Good for her) Similarly, years ago I was chatting with another friend who told me a story that she and her husband had made with each other along with another couple. (Bit confusing there - each couple made a bet with their own spouse.) The bet itself is not important, what I found interesting was that the loser would be forced to perform oral sex upon their partner. The tone and emphasis in the conversation was that this would be a major hardship. Now allow me to preface my thoughts with the idea that I live my life in a "live and let live" mode, and that whatever boundaries, limits, or preferences two (or more) people have established amongst themselves is their own business. That being said I have no understanding of the mindset illustrated in the above. None. (Provided the person is healthy and reasonably clean.) I love to perform oral sex. End of sentence, no qualifiers, just a simple statement. Truth be told I enjoy a wide range of sexual activity, but pleasuring a woman with my mouth will always hold a special place in my heart (as well as other places.) Pleasuring her in this way is not done as an activity for the purpose of "paying in", so that I can get mine later. This is not simply a warm up for the "main event." Pleasuring a woman with my mouth (and fingers, and nose, and cheeks, and...) is an event of an to itself. I love to able to focus my full attention on my partner, I love finding all the little spots that make them moan, squirm, and sigh. I love taking her to the edge, and then heading off in a new direction, only to return to the edge again soon after. I love pushing her over the edge, feeling her ride the wave of pleasure until she has reached her limit, then stopping and feeling her relax as she comes down from the high. Although many times I am not so much stopping, as it is more like pausing because I love to help my partner to push past her limits and explore what is on the other side. Eventually I will stop, and eventually my partner will come down from their high.  As far as I am concerned the sexual activities for the night could go no further, and I would still be satisfied, because I get a high of my own from my partner's high. Most of the time however, once my partner has recovered, we move on to other fun activities, and that is wonderful, and those activities can stand on their own. So what is my point? The point is not that there is something wrong with these other people, and they should change in some way. The point is (as my handle suggests) Different Strokes for Different Folks. One size does not fit all. I accept that there are people who see the world differently, and that take pleasures in different thing - however some of these differences I simply do not understand. Fortunately I don't have to. "Laz" |
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