Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Forgot password?
Blogs > Gracekinzz2 > Adventures and Life

Easily Angered Woman (Siu Hei Lui Yan - in Cantonese)  

Gracekinzz2 50F
167 posts
2/21/2013 8:20 am
Easily Angered Woman (Siu Hei Lui Yan - in Cantonese)

Finally I got the answer to "Y" that have been in my mind for the passed almost 1 month..Blame it on my straight forwardness and also dissapointment I had with some matters that caused a friend to misunderstand my tone of voice.. One of the reason is that I don't like people to promise me things and then cancelled it last minute but not once but three times.

Anyway all this happen so suddenly with a friend totally stop chatting with me like all the sudden which caused me to wander that is it my fault n have I said something wrong n done something to deserved the silent treatment?? hahahahaha.. but I did send messages to apologize even I don't know what is happening n hoping to have a chat/drinking/<b> clubbing </font></b>friend again but no reply at all even send wishes for CNY n Valentine's day.

Then a common friend of ours meet her up for drinks n she told her that. Y can't she just tell me straight on the face? I prefer straight forward confrontation than the chicken way out. Anyway, since I know the reason tonight, I feel better. Another common friend of us said maybe I should take the initiative to apologize to her, buy her a meal n etc to beg for forgiveness but I told her have done that a couple of times from the beginning but no response from her n not going to do that again. I guess I got my own limit too. So going to let bygones, bygones n not going to do anything. I have other better things to take care of then a woman who get easily get angry for some small matter, like current situation at home and etc.

Must learned to let go of friendship which r not meant to be and learned from it instead of trying to find out the reason "Y". Caused un-wanted questioning on myself n also stress which I do have enough stress at this moment.

Anyway, just want to wish her "HAPPY NEW YEAR" n hope u find someone who u think worth your friendship as I m tired of doing all the apologising already!.

Anyway, this is an adult website n I m writing all this, sure got people will tell me off soon.. hahahahahaha.. Oh ya.. a friend just told me "Don't underestimate the power of an angry lady, she will caused trouble".. and I agree but still I m a woman n I told him, why woman r so "MA FAN".. Angry said angry, don't like said don't like.. be straight forward n be true to what u want!!.. N no one can read what u have in your head.. as we r not a worm in your tummy (this is a chinese proverb).. hahahahaha

1234letsdooit 61M
1114 posts
2/21/2013 4:21 pm

 GOOD to hear that u have finally "WOKE UP"!!!

Told u a zillion times dy... that a friend like tat is not worth ur stress... U juz wouldn't listen BUT its good that u found the answer and feeling relief now Its not your lost... IT'S HER LOST...

You are a kind and good hearted person who treasures good friendships.. hence... you deserve BETTER FRIENDS. So... MOVE ON!!!

Cheers


Gracekinzz2 50F
111 posts
2/21/2013 7:47 pm
    Quoting 1234letsdooit:
    GOOD to hear that u have finally "WOKE UP"!!!

    Told u a zillion times dy... that a friend like tat is not worth ur stress... U juz wouldn't listen BUT its good that u found the answer and feeling relief now Its not your lost... IT'S HER LOST...

    You are a kind and good hearted person who treasures good friendships.. hence... you deserve BETTER FRIENDS. So... MOVE ON!!!

    Cheers
Tq tq.. Dan.. Thanks for your nagging n also your scolding.. hahahahaha..


Become a member to create a blog