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Thank GOD for the BANNED User option!!  

schothot69 54F  
491 posts
1/23/2014 1:31 pm
Thank GOD for the BANNED User option!!


Ok so seriously, I have to apologize first to my regular blog watchers because I usually don't rant and rave quite so much on my blog posts but HOLY FUCKING HELL what the fuck is going on this week?!?!?!?!?!

This is the email exchange I had with someone TODAY. You tell me if I am overreacting or not. I have officially lost patience and perspective here. The name is changed to protect the moronic but I should leave it in so everyone can avoid this asshat.

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asshole
morning
1/23/2014 5:35 am

asshole
Sweetie, I will be running an ANAL SEX CAMP in Feb. 2014, if you are interested email me, I have one females student confirmed too play? ASS (name changed)
1/23/2014 5:39 am

Me
When, where, and what exactly does that entail from my end (no pun intended! Ha ha)?
1/23/2014 6:07 am

asshole
The camp will be the first week of February I will teach you mostly hygiene how to relax and how to properly prepare for anal an enema is involved adult toys of your choosing and again relaxation techniques. we can't will be held in downtown San Francisco. Last year I had three students for the camp but Beach dunes wanted individual session. It takes about 3 hours and you leave with valuable techniques one of the main goals is for you to have an orgasim during analsex
1/23/2014 6:43 am

asshole
History: I started the Camp from advive from former Anal Partners, these women thought it best I share my experiences. I hope to prevent messy anal and infections as well as after care. Let me know if you are still interested, we can talk? ASS
1/23/2014 7:29 am

asshole
Here is my info cell xxx xxx xxxx email xxxxx... (yes I changed this info too)
1/23/2014 9:53 am

Me
Interesting enough but I'm not really interested. I've been having anal sex for some time and like to think I already know what I am doing in terms of preparation, enjoyment and thorough cleanliness. Cheers!
1/23/2014 9:57 am

asshole
Can you show me?
1/23/2014 10:24 am

asshole
I am a real Analholic!
>> here he also sent me a picture of himself as well so I could apparently look him in the eyes later when cursing his existence
1/23/2014 10:25 am

asshole
LOL! I am curious why you responded to me if you are interested?
1/23/2014 10:28 am

asshole
I do get this from local fit women, who are just NOT interested.. I have one playmate now who lives 10hrs away.. she is shock by your response... I notice you are NOT looking to play with anyone but yet you keep your profile active..
1/23/2014 10:31 am

sidebar: at this point I started crafting my reply below so didn't see the next THREE messages until after I hit send.

asshole
I love sex butt I am a Man so I have to woo you women to fuck me, so I am always stumped. Lol!! Was this a "power trip" for you to reject me?.. lol
1/23/2014 10:33 am

asshole
Your response is very rude, demeaning.... granted I am NOT a woman who loves anal sex, my email was meant for fun and pleasure, sweetie
1/23/2014 10:35 am

asshole
I sense you got a great thrill writing that response? Rejecting what I have too offer?
1/23/2014 10:38 am

Me
why did I reply? ummm because that's just good manners
I was curious too. Never heard of an anal sex camp before. I don't think that's too shocking but maybe so.
An no I am not looking now because I generally don't play when I am at home. I travel for work about 90% of my time and that's when I play. I leave my profile active because I never know where I am going to be next so why not say hello to people and keep things interesting. That's not terribly complicated I hope and certainly not meant to be a power trip or anything weird.
Best of luck in your local search in any case!
1/23/2014 10:39 am

asshole
It is weird
1/23/2014 10:54 am

asshole
You have to understand iam a doctor with 2 so this is the only forum I can us to find sex
1/23/2014 10:56 am

asshole
The reaon why I am bitching is bcuz I cannot get sex like you, men have to go thru a lot of shit to get women attention, it would be better if you just told me to fuck off than waste my time
1/23/2014 11:38 am

Me
Perhaps the reason you are having to work so hard is because you are being an asshole. There was nothing rude or demeaning in my initial reply to you, however you proceed to go on for 7 emails, two of which came in while I was writing my reply which shows you have no patience whatsoever, and then go on further to call me weird and then keep bitching to me. Call me crazy, but that SCREAMS you are not the least bit interested in having any type of civil dialogue with me, are needy beyond rational thought, and are likely someone that I would never want to meet much less have sex with. Welcome to my banned AFFers list.

oh, and Fuck Off. Stop wasting MY time.


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So there you have it. What the Fuck is wrong with this guy?!?!?!

Maybe I do have a truly unrealistic perception of myself but I don't think there was anything in any of my first two emails that was rude or demeaning in the least. Even the longer one that explained myself and my apparently weird profile was pretty polite.

So why the rage? Was it truly directed at just me or all women on the face of the earth that won't let this guy fuck them in the ass. I am leaning towards the latter.

Personally, I don't care what his reason may be. Totally uncalled for, rude and disrespectful himself. Yes, he is indeed on my banned users list now, so I won't be sharing any replies to my last email as thankfully I won't be reading one. Thank you Adult Dating zone-coders for that truly helpful feature!!

I need to shake this one off and seriously think about NOT replying to any more emails here. Apparently I am just asking for trouble whether I mean to or not. Fuck

- I'm just a girl that can't say no

Come read my other blog posts schothot69


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
1/23/2014 1:55 pm

Your responses were perfectly reasonable. If you didn't instigate this conversation (say by writing on your blog, hey, I want people to message me about anal sex) then he was initially wasting his time already. I think assholes like that just need to be put in their place sometimes, and you did it, nicely and thoroughly. I don't admire people who are stupid and initiate these exchanges and then get all insulted. Whatever.

BTW I would have been the same way.
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schothot69 replies on 1/23/2014 2:28 pm:
thank you! glad to know I was being reasonable

AlvinBooth 70M
5468 posts
1/23/2014 5:41 pm

The banned option doesn't go far enough IMO.

AB


No Bozos


schothot69 replies on 1/23/2014 5:52 pm:
Really, you think so? What would you suggest?

I would like to see an option where if see someone being an asshole I could tag their profile for being an asshole. We could call it the douchemeter. You'd get something like 5 hits a day to apply against someone else and then you have to wait until the next day to do it again. After a certain number of hits that person get banned for a day. If you get banned 5 days in a row for being an asshole you get banned for a month. Something like that on Adult Dating zone would be awesome!!!

JustHere2Cam 56M
14229 posts
1/23/2014 6:01 pm

"Anal sex camp"? Seriously??? Yeah, I'm sure he has tons of women signing up for that. (Insert eye roll here.)


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discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
1/23/2014 11:45 pm

I think you were perfectly polite -- more polite than he deserved.

As for whether his anger was at you or the general idea that he's not getting laid, I think it's the latter. I wouldn't be surprised if women who ignore him right from the start get a string of hate mail too.


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
1/24/2014 11:34 am

There should be a penalty box for the asshats on here. We should be able to put them in that category for all to see.


AlvinBooth 70M
5468 posts
1/24/2014 6:34 pm

Rather than repeat everything here just go to this Blog and read all of my posts there. This is something I've been harping on for years.

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rm_Dragontatz 59M
4 posts
2/16/2014 10:22 pm

Wow...talk about the disreguard of respect that dude has, sounds like a passive agressive control freak to me....INSTA BAN...you handled him so eloquently it was a pleasure reading...ty for sharing


rm_debluvz2fck 55F
535 posts
3/3/2014 9:13 pm

Wow... I thought the strange ones were all in Texas.

Was the man in question Asian by any chance? He sounds like just about every Middle Eastern man on a sex site. Why won't women have sex with me? I have an advanced degree!

Kama Sutra or no, nothing makes up for an inherent lack of substance or attraction. They never get over that.

I saw nothing that was offensive, inappropriate, or misleading in what you said. Some men just get their hopes up, get frustrated, and then get abusive when they don't get what they want.

Thanks for sharing!


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