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BIG Weekend...and i've got the jitters
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BIG Weekend...and i've got the jitters So, if this is your first time reading anything from me... I'll fill you in that the Husband and i are new to the whole swinger's thing. We have VERY specific limitations that are sure to remain in place and are pretty much non- negotiable. We want to get with other couples and/or single women... but i will not be penetrated or touched by any man other than Him. He is EXTREMELY hetero and doesn't want to take part in double penetration because He doesn't want another man touching Him AT ALL. i am bi...and ideally the female that we experience will be bi-sexual. Confusing and convoluted? Maybe a bit. But we would like to think we'll be able to find couples/single women that will want to take part in the pleasure festival  That being said... We have a "date" with a VERY pretty girl who has an OUTSTANDING personality this weekend. She and i have been talking on the phone and via text... and He's talked to her via text a few times. GREAT energy goin' on and it seems like the chemistry is REALLY good. She is a bit nervous and has voiced that... but i've assured her there are no expectations... we'll meet for dinner and a few drinks and go from there. Whatever happens...happens. i assure you... we will have plenty of cash for a room and a stock of condoms though  On Friday night, we are going to the local Swinger's club for the first time. I'm a little nervous about this because I'm no runway model. Body is SO not bathing suit suitable. i've got 38I breasts that have NO choice but to droop a bit with the weight and how many i've sustained via the mammory glands... and they sit atop a slight paunch of a belly. my ass jiggles and bounces when it's supposed to ... but i've got no onion or apple round booty. i'm short.... and i'm not as young as i use to be. i want to walk in this place and feel sexy and confident... not out of place like Ugly Betty. Ideally... my hope is that we will find a single female that will join He and i in a private room for some play. i have to just take each step as i go. i am a little on the nervous side... but it's excitement more than anything negative. i also am being realistic and realizing that our beautiful date may get scared and no show on us... if she does... we'll find another.  ... and/or be patient with her until she is more comfortable.i know ONE thing... the energy between the Husband and i is BEAUTIFUL right now. It's always been good...but it's OUTSTANDING at this time. It's amazing how many benefits there are on a person and a couple when sexual liberation is experienced mutually. Has anyone else done a<b> blind date </font></b>from this site? Were you nervous? Have you ever no showed a person or been no showed? i'll definitely update as we go along this weekend and let ya'll know how things went  Do your thing and don't care if they like it.--Tina Fey |
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I never met anyone from this site     ---------------------Dennis US ARMY (RETIRED) AND YOUR FRIEND I never mean to offend(blog or comment) anyone ,If I do contact me please. Please check out my blog Harley-Davidson Drive(19harley86)
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I never met anyone from this site (I'm getting personal here)... you seem like you might be a little shy in person... Do your thing and don't care if they like it.--Tina Fey
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"Has anyone else done a blind date from this site? Were you nervous? Have you ever no showed a person or been no showed?" Many of us been on blind dates. Different people have different rules. Some never play on the first date, it is purely meet in person, see if all the hype is real, then go back and consider and decide. Others meet and play on the first date. And of course there are those who simply meet at a meet & greet and go directly to the main event. We do not meet for the first time at their place or ours, but a neutral place, and then decide. If it is a go, we play on the first date. We have had several where we met, everyone said "Yup", and headed to someone's house for play. We have also met people at Meet & Greets, exchanged contact info, and then said, "Come on over to our place" (since we already met in person). On the other hand, we have also had times when we met in person at a neutral place, and decided, "No thanks" and walked away. Everyone was very polite and kind about it. We did have one instance where we met the "her" of a couple just as a preliminary check-out and it was obvious that the profile had nothing to do with the actual people and we said, "Nope" and walked. We also discuss the nitty gritty up front. Who is bi, who is not, what the limits are. And of course STDs, protection, or lack thereof - what we are all comfortable with. All that said, having said "Yes", we have not had a bad experience. Of course some are better than others, but the people have always been very polite, non-pushy, genuinely concerned that everyone is comfortable and has a good time (maybe we just do a good job screening?). Can't say we have ever made a date, showed up, and found the other party to be a no-show. We have had lots of people talk a big story, but fail to ever actually agree to meet. Hope you have fun. Part of this whole thing that i am looking forward to is meeting like minded couples (like you guys) who we can just hang out with and have fun... do meet and greets or whatever... we don't hang out with a whole lot of people because we're ... well... "different"... Do your thing and don't care if they like it.--Tina Fey
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I'm NOT shy ---------------------Dennis US ARMY (RETIRED) AND YOUR FRIEND I never mean to offend(blog or comment) anyone ,If I do contact me please. Please check out my blog Harley-Davidson Drive(19harley86)
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Here's hoping that YOUR weekend is WONDERFUL for the both of you. The two of you TOTALLY DESERVES IT. And thank you for the kind comments on O/our photos Do your thing and don't care if they like it.--Tina Fey
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