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Blogs > nufun1961 > Couples 4 single Men

Introductory Blog.....  

nufun1961 62M/55F  
14 posts
7/26/2013 4:08 pm

Last Read:
11/15/2019 1:52 pm
Introductory Blog.....
I would like to invite discussion on the topic many couples bitch about in our experience. We both enjoy MFM meetings. We think it is far easier to meet with single men for a fun evening then to coordinate a date with couples. Don't get us wrong.....We really enjoy meeting couples as well.....its just on the order of 10 times easier to find single guys eager to meet.

However, there are some classic mistakes guys make on this and other sites which, if avoided, would make them far more interesting to us for a meeting and potential playtime.

1. Have pictures of yourself available to share. Face and Body is all that is needed to get the discussion going.
2. Follow up and ask for a meeting. Be specific about the date...time and place. As if you will actually show up.
3. This is a sex site....and attraction is very important. Make sure that you share your best face pic when the time cum's to close the deal on-line.
4. Always insist on trading phone No.'s to decrease the odds being stood up by either party. A follow up here with a confirmation call to the couple by the gentlemen.... where the female actually speaks to the gentlemen is preferred prior to the date.
5. We suggest that the gentlemen and couple agree (prior to meeting) on a play place and further agree as to who will make the arrangements and arrange any payments needed if a hotel is the best option.

These are fairly general suggestions...and they all apply to meeting other couples as well....they have served us well...as we have had relatively few bad experiences.

Please add your thoughts and we will respond to your comments and add some other ideas as we go...happy blogging....mic n kim
Solaufa 49M
1 post
11/22/2019 8:27 pm

 I never thought of an introductory blog, but wow. you hit it perfect.

thanks


nufun1961 62M/55F  
26 posts
11/11/2018 7:44 pm

 so I am just going to suggest that more communication is better than less....


Addickted2Anal 64M
Ask me for a photo
20 posts
8/4/2013 2:10 pm

 The arrogance of one individual can destroy the moment in a heartbeat, I learned my lessons the hard way, wife rolling her eyes as hubby does another shot of cuervo, chain smokers, "hey man, do this she really likes it" amazed but I have found a cuckhold husband situation or even partial situation best for a man as a 3rd.


blueorb 43M
Ask me for a photo
11 posts
7/26/2013 8:42 pm

 This has been the template for all of the successful meetings I've had before.

Now, its a two way street, in my experience. If the couple is poor at executing these steps or doesn't want to do any of them, its almost a certainty that they're not serious and things aren't going to work.

But this is one heck of a PSA. It took me some trial and error to come to the same conclusions.


coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
7/26/2013 7:42 pm

 I wrote a blog on this subject as well. The problem is that the additional male is really a third wheel. The couple needs to thoroughly explain and script the role they want him to play. That makes everyone more comfortable and no egos get stepped on.
Be safe, relax and just have fun!


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