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Got turned down when we met!
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Got turned down when we met! Got turned down when we met! The short of it, I chatted with this guy off and on over the past 2 years, showed him my face pic, he said nice, then finally today he drove to meet me, about 20 miles, a 30 minute drive. He came in, we chatted, he said he wasn’t interested, then he left. Oh well. It happens. My masculinity and ego is still intact. I’m the same person I was yesterday. Nothing has changed. I’m still a very sensuous and nice guy that thinks he’s a good, fun, and enjoyable lover. If you are wondering what I look like, I think I’m a decent looking guy. IMO, on a scale of 1-10, I think I’m a 7 though some women and men would have rated me a higher number, calling me good looking, handsome. But any way you cut it, I’m nice enough to stay with. Regardless, it’s just sex, you are not dating or marrying me. At least not yet! So if you get turned down, don’t worry, it happens or will happen. Whether you are a male or female, or a couple, it’s just a personal attraction. Don’t worry about it. Don’t let it get you down. And after you meet, and have sex, if the person doesn’t want to have sex with you again, don’t worry, it’s just sex, it’s just another person or another couple. If they aren’t interested, they aren’t, let it go, and go with peace. There are others out there. I chatted with this guy off and on for the past 2 years. He cancelled several times and didn’t show some other times. Including times he said I’m leaving now! I’ll be there in 30 minutes. Recently I chatted with another guy who has chatted with him and he said he would never show. I would have not met with him after his several no shows but I was curious to see if he would ever show. This morning he came over. I guess he was a decent looking guy, shaved head, fancy sneakers, jewelry, not my type. I’m just a plain person. Simple. Well educated, very varied interests, humorous. Trying to put what’s important in order. We said just a few things to each other. He was very nice and pleasant though not my type, I was floored by an overpowering cologne that lasted in the house long after he left. He said he wanted to go. I said ok. He left. He was very polite and cordial. |
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there has been a few times with me that I don't really feel any spark with someone but still have sex with them because honestly that is why we are here. I have heard some people say people don't have standards here but really are we any different then someone going to the bar....but oh yeah we are sober  thanks for the blog....love your outlook!
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nice post
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there has been a few times with me that I don't really feel any spark with someone but still have sex with them because honestly that is why we are here. I have heard some people say people don't have standards here but really are we any different then someone going to the bar....but oh yeah we are sober thanks for the blog....love your outlook! mmm good luck on finding what full fills your fantasies <3
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He may have stayed longer if you'd met up in a public place first. Sounds like he got cold feet. Very rude not to apologise for a no show. He may have had good reasons but an explanation would be nice.
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He cancelled several times and didn't show some other times feels a since of self conflict and shame.
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wow, it sounded like it was very mature and both new right away there was no sparks! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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