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kegal exercises or soul mates?
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kegal exercises or soul mates? this is my second half assed attempt(to get that extra month, so I can have four months of total disappointment as a gold member(technically, got more action as standard(pathetic)))at a blog. maybe the items in my title are actually more closely related than you would expect. cause if your ideal woman is really your soul mate, wouldn't she also be tight? I would only hope... ha, actually, funny thing, I believe(partly from experience) that we all have many soul mates and live multiple lives, getting to interact with these soul mates in different capacities in said lives. for example, my #1 ex as I refer to her, in this life was my most significant love of my life so far. Seventeen years together, started as a one night stand, yet at the time I met her and was soon kissing her in a parking lot and had a strange familiarity as if two long lost lovers coming together again against insurmountable odds, was, as I and her believe to have been connected in the past. once as brother and sister(not consummated) and another as me a Nazi death camp guard and her a young Jewish prisoner(also not consummated, although attempted(long story). and many other vague occurrences, as we figured out over a long relationship. were we meant for each other? yes, but not for our whole lives... but we are still good friends and occasionally see each other(not consummated) occasionally, despite jealous boy/girl friends. and even given that, was she tight?... not really... I met her after 3 and all though she would dabble with kegals and grunt hard sometimes during sex and say "can you feel that?" and I would play along and say "sure honey", I usually could barely feel her squeeze. actually, when she started playing with her clit, then she tightened, so that was always encouraged and of course would usually result in both of us getting off. I think<b> discipline </font></b>was her failing , just like how we "should" work out, but ultimately don't or crap out after a few reps. if your still wondering what Kegal exercises are, they are a method of strengthening the vagina so it is tighter and stronger, obviously a plus... it also has the result of stimulation being stronger, increases blood flow and nerve sensitivity and can be helpful in lessening menstrual pain and cramps. I am not doctor, don't quote me or hold me liable, look it up yourself. this brings me to my #2 ex, who was by far the tightest woman I ever fucked, so strong was her pussy that sometimes I thought she might tear my cock off. even when fingering her she would clamp down and my fingers would be all crippled and cramped after she was done getting off, it was both exciting and painful. she would practice kegals every time she urinated, by which she would cut off the stream several times while peeing and thus working the muscle responsible for vaginal contractions. she had done this for like twenty years, so was basically and addict at it, did it without even having to think about. usually kegals are performed with the same action, just not while peeing... but might as well multitask right... taking a few moments longer do a common everyday task and the results being a bigger smile on both our faces... I am all for that  as for my 2nd ex, the first time I met her, she was showing me and my 1st an apartment and was making these weird sensual gestures while talking that set off a spark, and I had the thought " Wow, I could really have sex with this woman". she remained a neighbor/kinda friend for 4 years, and I never thought I would get to fulfill that first "thought", until my 1st arranged for the 2nd and I to have sex to help alleviate her frustrating sex life with a husband who just didn't get her needs. I had a deep connection with her too, along soul mate avenues that endured the end of, and slightly influenced said end to both my "relationship" with the 1st and her "marriage". after 4 or 5 years of on and off commitment, albeit great sex... it ended abruptly on the phone with her saying "Well, maybe we should never speak again!" and there it was. oh do I miss that tight pussy. oh well. my point, I guess is... that there is someone for everyone, and actually even more. I feel that even my family members are "soul mates" just because of the deep connection I have with them. as far as kegals go, ladies... you expect us guys to be stiff and ready when the time comes and to remain that way through the course of events, right? that's what our "job description" is thought to be and what we bring to the table. well, kegals is what the ladies can bring, to help the men perform their "job" as well. and it might just attract a soul mate. this blog brought to you by my 3rd, who I consider a soul mate, yet have never been able to convince her of the whole "tightness" issue. so I improvise by squishing her ass cheeks together. similar results. any #4s out there? do you "exercise"? 
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oops, I accidently deleted a comment from a lady in Idaho with lovely legs... I am sorry. she commented on how she doesn't see what kegals/tightness has to do with soul mates. and that after having c sections its a trade off for the imperfect stomach. not verbatim. this was my response: well that was my conundrum... which to write about, was thinking about both and decided to multitask. and kegals/tightness doesn't have anything to do with soul mates.... but it wouldn't hurt. I forgot to include #2 and a half, who I met on Adult Dating zone, and had great sex, yet very loosey goosy, probably the most compatible person, personality wise I ever met and definitely a "soul mate" also was the only "action" in over five years here, that Adult Dating zone has provided... lame.
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revision: almost 8 years on Adult Dating zone... more lame
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After meeting you and reading your blog I hope that I will fulfill your expectations or desires. I have refrained and obstained from sex for over thirteen years and would hope that my pussy will be tight enough. As for a soul mate only time will tell and what we make of it. Its all up to you and your desire.
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