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Hands on, Hands Off?
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Hands on, Hands Off?  This is tricky territory for a man at the beginning of a relationship, does she want your hands on her head when she is<b> performing oral </font></b>sex on you or not? I generally assume not until she says otherwise, but I've had partners take and put my hand or hands on their head. Most want it gently, just the idea and not the action, but I've also had partners who wanted me to thrust and almost force their head onto my cock. In some cases it varies depending on her mood that day. It's still more the illusion than real force, but enough to trigger whatever fantasy goes with the act for her. I know very few women get off on being gagged, but some want to be in control in that situation and some like the illusion that they aren't. One or two seemed to invite gagging if they could throat me, which isn't easy to do to a thick cock. Most women I've been with took some pride in their oral skills whether they ever tried to throat me or not. Most of them were justified in that pride. I try to read her actions and responses since few women will tell you before hand how they want it, but if you have ever wondered what your man is thinking during a blow job some of it is 'what's too much and what's too little," because we certainly don't want you to stop or cut us off because we were too rough.  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.  |
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I can understand, and that's why I would prefer her to be clear upfront. I don't mind gripping the sheets, tie me up if you want, just let me know how you want to do it. There are things men and women should know instinctually about sex, but most of it is learned behavior and if you don't say something guys will just keep doing what you don't like if they still get off. Guys tend to assume you are enjoying it if you don't tell us otherwise. Probably some of the most common words in domestic arguments about sex are those in the phrase, "But I thought you liked ..." Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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Sometimes I like hands on.. He tells me what he likes and what I should be doing.. Until I change the situation.. hugssssssssss V Obviously very few want actual rough play, but some want it rougher than others at various times. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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Sometimes I like hands on.. He tells me what he likes and what I should be doing.. Until I change the situation.. hugssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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