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Chemistry and Sex
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Chemistry and Sex Have you ever wondered what it is that makes up "chemistry?" The answer seems allusive to me. It something that you know what it is when you feel it. You know it and they know it and you both know you the other knows it. But how is that? Is it the pheromones? I don't know about you but I can't remember ever sniffing some guy when the chemistry struck. Is it the body language? the way he holds his beer or the way he clutches his crotch when sitting at the table? I don't know about you but the few times I had chemistry knock me silly, I couldn't tell you what the guy was doing with his hands let alone what he was doing when we met. So maybe it was his eyes. They say eyes are windows to your soul. But that can't be because I just came out of a relationship with a sociopath and believe me he has no soul and I can see that in his eyes now but I know I didn't see it then. So I guess it could be in the eyes but they are not all telling in the beginning and because of that, I don't think that is where the chemistry begins. So, what's left? Intellect. I believe that it is intellect that is the connect. A lot of this is non-verbal. It's things like being able to totally understand where someone is coming from (rhetorically speaking). That is you can relate to what they say, agree with the points they make, understand their logic or rational, the words they choose would be those that you would choose. etc etc. Simply put your minds mesh. You think a like. They say 60% of good sex is in the mind..... Next time Physics and Sex |
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I feel like it is a level of being comfortable, and a connection of the minds or souls. Maybe thinking some what alike, but still having separate ideas. It is hard to say exactly what it is maybe a combination of several different factors. Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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6/6/2014 5:07 am |
yes you all hit points worth thinking about. But i do believe karlof17 hit something worth exploring. that part of the brain where our emotions lie and fight or flight is housed . i know that place well. it is not a place of cognative control It defies reason Addictions are seated there as well. hmmm more thought on this. xxoo venus
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I believe trust is essential often overlooked, yet know into our subconscious! To much clouds our ability to connect, and to be understood. To much stuff floods our ability to stop us from ourselves to understand other than our own. Why perhaps is it that the dude will first and foremost be labeled a pervert, than to acknowledge just maybe those horny feelings to bring his comfort to a woman. Hence instead of both parties flowing down bliss stream of erotic joy and passions, what happens so often is both parties wind up battling hence then two parties rowing into two different directions looking for the same thing!
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