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Lets talk about sex, Baybee!
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Lets talk about sex, Baybee! Wow, I know. I bit off a big one when I decided to write this particular blog. I've been thinking about this one for a while now. In fact, it came into mind right while I was writing the one about defining sexy. Just like with Sexy... I don't think there is one definition of what GOOD sex is. Think about it for a minute. Good sex. Sure you have an idea... we all do... but! There is no one thing that defines GOOD sex. I apologize in advance for calling some people out in this blog, but I am going to use you as examples. Muahluv: Anyone who reads her blog knows she likes sex a little on the rough side. Hair pulling, ass smaking, pound-her-into-submission sex. Most men will go: "ALRIGHT!" Plus, she is also a grand master (mistress?) of the art of blowjob. Down boys. That, to be honest with you, is pretty outstanding. Couple that with her...love of showing off (for lack of the ability to spell the proper term at this time).. and it personally leads me to believe that she has more than a touch of submissive in her. Crazy  Yeah, I know you are still out there!) is at a point in her life where she is more inclined to the fuck buddy. Now, most of you are going to tell me that the fuck buddy isn't really a type of sex, but I'll argue with you. In a lot of ways, fuck buddies are the purest form of sex...at least to me. There is nothing deeper between the two of you than just a good time. It's fucking for the sake of fucking... and nothing else. Siren: Uhm, network pics? She tends to play a little more with the fantasy and roleplay aspect. Little schoolgirl? Yeah... she's done it. Playboy bunny... been there too. I'm still waiting for her to do some of the other costumes I saw in Japan. LORDY, they would love her there. Now, there is a reason I called these three women out. Actually, there are a couple reasons. One, I know all three of them read this blog...so I can say HI! Seriously. I called them out like that so they can correct me. Another reason is that I know a little bit about their likes and dislikes. I've had the pleasure of talking to all three of these wonderful women. The main reason though, is that even though they do mesh up with me well on certain levels, I have other wants. I wanted to illustrate that. Do I like rough sex? Hell yes! Sign me up for that after a bad day at work. You know what I am talking about! There is nothing (in my slightly deluded mind at least) better than working out all those negative emotions and energy through a pleasureable and positive avenue like sex. Walk in the door, growl at her... rip her panties down... push her down... take her....possess her... There are other times though, that I just want to explore her body. I've been known to spend hours just kissing and touching a woman's skin... for the sake of becomming intimately familiar with her smell, taste, feel, and where her little 'turn on' buttons are. There is also something to be said for taking your time guys (and gals). From penetration to Ejaculation takes between 7-8 minutes...usually. That isn't much time, is it? You will probably spend that much time reading this blog. Do you feel any special connection to me? There are times when building the connection to your partner is more important than orgasm (GASP!). I'm not going to talk about Blowjobs. I really can't eb the judge of it. I've never had a good one. I guess a lot of it has to do with the attitude she took down there. All the women I have gotten one from treat the act like it was a burden to them. Hard for me to enjoy something that isn't pleasureable for her. That alone is why I still think Muah would blow my mind if I was ever that lucky. Fuck buddies. At least for me, they are kinda like an afternoon snack. Nothing wrong with them. They can tide you over during those times that you aren't getting it regularly in a relationship. Hangup I have is this: if the person is a fuck buddy, that means they aren't relationship material. I know my fuck buddy wasn't. Was she a good lay? YEAH. It was just that she wasn't someone I could see being with for anything other than sex. Again, at that point in my life... that is all I wanted... and that is all she wanted. Fantasy and Roleplay: I am firmly convinced that this is extremely important to a sexual relationship. No matter how gorgeous the woman is... or how skilled she is... eventually even buck wild monkey sex is going to get boring after a bit. Fantasy and roleplay let you spice it up... just enough to keep it fresh... and fun. When sex becomes boring... that is the time to get out. I am not trying to insult anyone. I just am pretty sure of what I want. I want the wild, but I also want the gentle. Believe me, it is possible to make a woman scream in pleasure... without ever taking your pants off guys. I've looked at my own penis... and sometimes I laugh. It is the single most ridiculous piece of flesh on me....and I am proud of the little fellow! I guess, at least for me... good sex is with a partner that I know...someone that I can respond to and who can respond to me. I don't want to have to tell her what to do... I want her to be able to figure it out... and be happy about doing it... because I am going to be happy about returning the favor. I also know I want a vocal gal. Someone who is going to moan and writhe... and maybe even scream. Dammit, lemme know if I am doing a good job hun... I don't know the sensations you are experiencing. She also needs to be clean. While I prefer a shaved mound, that isnt what I am talking about. Today, sex is almost like playing Russian Roulette. Fellows, don't use your dipstick if you don't know how often her oil's been checked. In a lot of states, if you are HIV positive and you fail to disclose that to your partner... you are facing a felony. Unless you know, beyond a shadow of a doubt that the girl is clean... and you are clean... wrap that shit up. Don't send Johnny into the typhoon without a raincoat. I don't care if it doesnt feel as good (because, it doesnt. I don't know what the difference for a woman is.. but for a guy.. its like wearing a damn glove.), because even if bareback could be better... be safer. I would rather have several encounters that were just incredbible than one mind blowing one that serves me up with a case of the drippy dicks. Alright, I've spilled a bit. Now I want to hear from you. What, to you, makes good sex? Does a particular position make you get off harder? Do you like to talk dirty? Do you like to have someone talk dirty to you? Do you like to spank or be spanked? Tell me.. 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I'm a very dirty talker in bed .And I like rough sex , but no pain .. I don't like spanking . Methinks it's degrading . Just my 2 cents ..
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I'm a very dirty talker in bed .And I like rough sex , but no pain .. I don't like spanking . Methinks it's degrading . Just my 2 cents .. I think its kinda cool and sexy (on a totally random note) when she talks dirty in another language. LOL... its a fun experience. Via Con Carne!
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