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Guys and bis...  

bisarahsmiles 34F
24 posts
8/6/2014 2:58 pm
Guys and bis...


It states on my profile I'm looking for a woman, yet guys can't seem to help themselves and write to tell me how they're going to fuck me straight

Umm yeah, that isn't going to happen.

What happen to respecting the rights of what people want? If it's not you don't bother people. Respect yourself too

End kind of a rant lol

discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
2/16/2015 11:52 pm

My wife is bi, but she gets all the male action she wants from me. If she was on here I'm sure she would get the same nonsense if she looked for women here -- even if she listed herself as lesbian.

You're not doing anything wrong. It's the men who write to everyone they find attractive, without reading the profiles, who are doing it wrong. Some probably even have scripts set up to send mass e-mail, without even checking whether it's someone they would want to play with.


matt-battler 50M
199 posts
9/17/2014 4:29 am

Two points:

1) Standard members can't read profiles so guys that interact with you in chatrooms, blogs or the IMC won't know what's stated in your profile text

2) You're the latest in a long line of women on here who have 'bi' in their screenname but are only looking for women, then get surprised and annoyed that most of the correspondence they receive is from guys. Why highlight your bi nature above all and not have something like '4women' or '4femmes' in your screenname instead?


bisarahsmiles replies on 9/29/2014 3:22 pm:
1) Standard members can hover their mouse over any member's picture and read the basics. Which states guys are wasting their time and I'm looking to meet women not men.

2)I'm highlighting that because I am bi. It's not rocket science.

As I said, any member can read the basics which are very clear. They're just the latest in a long line of idiots who can't or won't read.

Thanks for the comment

bisarahsmiles 34F
282 posts
8/16/2014 9:57 am

    Quoting _Pauline_:
    She can use the blog forum as she sees fit. Who died and made you forum king
Thanks!! I didn't understand why he was being such an ass about it!


_Pauline_ 43F
85 posts
8/13/2014 5:42 am

    Quoting  :

She can use the blog forum as she sees fit. Who died and made you forum king


Laweagle5 52F
5 posts
8/6/2014 8:14 pm

Rant away Sister!! It is definitely annoying...kinda like this site with the new IM that doesn't work half the time. Hopefully you can find what you are looking for and can move on!


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
8/6/2014 4:16 pm

Well, you are very pretty and I know that's the reason. Hang in there and just delete the email's you do not like. Good luck in your searches!!


bisarahsmiles replies on 8/12/2014 11:16 am:
Thank you

FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
8/6/2014 3:51 pm

It is possible that they are working on two principles.

The first is "It doesn't hurt to ask" - they can't see why you'd be bothered by receiving an email you can ignore.

The second is "If you don't ask you won't get", with its corollary "If I do ask I might get".

However it's more likely that they seen an attractive young woman and decide they'd like to fuck her. Unfortunately at that point reason and politeness leave the building...


bisarahsmiles replies on 8/12/2014 11:14 am:
And yet if a man were to mail them they'd be screaming from the rooftops "I'm not gay you ********!", but they think it's okay to do it

Horny_Holly 43F
2767 posts
8/6/2014 3:32 pm

Stupidity? Arrogance? A bit of both probably.

They think they can somehow 'change' you

A lot of people aren't big on respect on this site, but stay true to who you are and ignore the morons, of which there are many

Good luck!

Holly


"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


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