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MFM sex  

beefythickone 51M
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8/25/2014 10:15 pm
MFM sex


MFM sex with married and engaged couples has unquestionably been the most fun i've had in the lifestyle. there's something special about a couple letting in another man into their world, sharing with him what makes them tick and letting him explore within their boundaries.

a lot of single guys seem to get a bad reputation in the lifestyle. now i'm not here to defend all single dudes. hey, we're men... and we know that means usually... we know how we've been known act. however, it should be noted that there are actually a lot of classy, well-mannered guys out there who are 100% respectful to a couple's relationship while still being a valuable, little demon in the bedroom!

i know several married couples in the lifestyle whose relationships were in absolute shambles and on the verge of divorce before they stepped into the lifestyle. after , sex was confusing for them. the husbands were straying as the attraction they once had for the ladies was declining.

until...

a little honest communication takes place and it's suddenly revealed that the husband gets a hard-on when he thinks about his wife getting fucked by another man. it's a tough talk to initiate, but benefits are massive. i'm good friends with multiple couples who's marriages were broken and about to fall apart before they jumped into the lifestyle together and began bringing other guys into bed with them.

as mentioned above, guys are guys... always will be. ladies, don't think you can change us because it's never gonna happen. it's a fact of life that all men love sex. some guys are turned on by fucking or watching blondes... others brunettes... Asian<b> chicks... </font></b>girl-girl sex... school girl outfits... bondage. yes, some guys like other guys. but the root of the matter is that men are motivated by sex. we see it in every form of the media today... magazines... television... film... and every facet of the internet. agree or disagree with it, there's a reason things are the way they are.

yes, many guys are turned on by watching men and women have sex... and when that female is a man's wife, most guys would like to see her get RAILED by another man right in front of him. many guys won't admit this, even though they privately fantasize about it. for those who are honest enough with themselves to know it would be okay and their girls aren't going to leave them... that it's just temporary fun... well, they've got it figured out. and double points to those guys who have had this conversation with their ladies and have arranged for her to be fucked by a third party. believe me, it's not just about the guys -- many gals enjoy a roll in the hay with some new cock as well.

but here's the real deal... and yes, many couples have personally told me this... and it's so incredibly simple: A HUSBAND AND WIFE LOOOOOOOOOVE TO EXPERIENCE EACH OTHER BE PLEASED SEXUALLY. that's it. they love to watch each other... they love to hear each other... they love to share each other. they love to tell those secrets about each other to a new partner and watch this third party use these newly learned tools and go to town! and yes, guys being so sexually charged, they like nothing more than watching their gal enjoy herself.

i know married couples who LOVE the discussion the two of them get to have after three-way sex has taken place in which they download and break down every little thing that took place. they absolutely get off on chatting everything up! the two of them get so turned on recapping the night's events that they end up having another go-around just between the two of them! can we say "saved marriage?"

now if you're a guy who disagrees with me and tries (keyword: tries) to act all macho, thinking there would never be a reason your gal would want to fuck another guy, you're lying to yourself and you know it.

and if you're a gal who is stuck with one of these possessive, tiny cocked dillholes who never lets you out of his sight... welp... i feel sorry for you... especially if you're reading this blog here on this swing site as you're truly missing out on what the lifestyle is all about.

so have a talk with each other sometime about what each of you might like to do if the rules were taken down for a few hours. you might be surprised where the conversation goes. and if it goes where i know it's going to go, then ACT UPON IT. life is short... why deny yourself a safe walk on the wild side?

but to bring it back full circle, after you two have "the talk", the next thing you need to do is find an experienced, polite guy who has been with couples and knows how to abide by all the ground rules you're gonna lay out for him. believe me, as long as you communicate these things, any guy that's worth having around is going to be okay with whatever laws you put in front of him. think about it -- he's about to get to fuck a hot chick for free and is going to basically act out a scene from a porno in the process... do you think he wants to screw that up? of course not! he's gonna do whatever the couple tells him to do. believe me, it's gonna be just as outstanding for you just as it's gonna be for him.

communication, throughout the entire process, is absolutely key... from those first talks between the couple... to meeting that third party for a vanilla meet-n-greet... to meeting in person before you all get naked... throughout the entire course of events in bedroom... CONTINUE TO TALK! yes, the three of you need to talk everything out... be open... be free... be friendly. if you're not experiencing something you want to, then say so. or if something is going in a bad direction, then be vocal about it.

follow these guidelines and you'll have experiences you'll never forget.

be safe... be smart... be adults... communicate... and enjoy.

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