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IT;S OK TO NEED A MAN  

SabrinaRoxanne 36T
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10/1/2015 4:50 am
IT;S OK TO NEED A MAN
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Travel_Couple69 58M
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10/1/2015 6:21 am

 ...yeah...you kinda over arced there and many of your points seem to counter your central point...that as a woman, you want to feel secure, desired, loved, protected, relinquish control, to a man you trust and need...there is an uber conceptualization of what you feel a woman should need, and it makes sense. For you.

However, neither gender should ever feel dependant, as in their life is not complete, without the other. It's simply too much responsibility for one, to be responsible for the world of another. Happiness with oneself and the ability to be independent should always be the foundation of which we all base our lives. Should we then be lucky to find someone we care about, we can share and build on that foundation.

We dislike gender based assumptions. For the very reasons we support LGBT and see you as a woman. We see nothing wrong with those whom change the outside to match what they feel on the inside. We see nothing wrong with those whom are happy with the outside and wish to partner with same. And of course we see nothing wrong with those that wish to play both sides of the fence.

We also believe in nurture vs nature. Likely as we are adoptive parents and were adopted as children. We refute that women are better child care providers, we refute that women can not do as good a job as men. We believe that both genders have the same emotional and security needs and just as capable of providing.

The only stereotype we do get, is that men can be jerks...but we chalk this up to social privilege and paternalistic entitlement.

Its a wide free and ever freer, growing and changing social structure, but many still feel bound by traditions...so, while its okay for you to need a man, for many women they have no desire to subjugate themselves.


bigtimberidge57 67M

10/1/2015 6:59 am

 that was a very amazing blog ..i hope it helps you when you write and express yourself ...


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