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a Couple that "plays" together ;"stays together"
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a Couple that "plays" together ;"stays together" A couple that "plays" together "stays together" or at least that's what I thought. Having begun a new relationship that looked like it was going to be a LTR, I discovered that I was involved with a very sensual and sexual lady. She liked and wanted sex in more that just a "vanilla way". As a 1-on-1 couple, we explored and enjoyed many different new things and I was always searching for new sexual things to bring to the "adventure". We tried positions, toys, fantasies, and whatever we could think of. (some worked; some didn't; and some we enjoyed a lot!) We opened up each others sexuality and sexual experience. Well with fantasies, I learned she had had previous several sexual experiences with other females. (and naturally, one of Man's most desired sexual fantasy is "to watch and to have sex" with two bisexual females) So I suggested, bring another person "on-board" for a 3some. She explained to me that sex with another female was "private & personal" thing for her and that she was also possessive. ("sharing" or seeing me with another female was "totally out of the question") So a FMF, was "off the table but I was still excited and curious about "group sex" or at least a 3some. I knew she, enjoyed and loved, anal sex (something that I introduce to her) and when we played with "toys" that she would "go wild with pleasure" from<b> double penetration. </font></b>The subject of having a MFM 3some (something that was "less treating" to her and something that I could "live with") was brought up and after much discussion, we decided to proceed with it. We located a guy that we thought that we both could be comfortable with and invited him to join us for a 3some. To make the story short, he had a different agenda than we had (we were into "sharing" the experience; whereas he was going to "conquer" her for himself) Needless to say, things went terribly, so "terribly wrong", that she refused to ever try that again. She didn't want to deny me the further experience and told me to find a "willing couple" but never tell her about it! I went on and found several different couples who were interested in MFM 3somes and during one, I discovered that I was fully capable of doing many bi-things "in the Heat of the Moment". (I even explored "M2M play" as a 1-on-1 but that do anything for me, "sharing" with a female is what worked for me!) The LTR female and I remained a couple of over ten years. I never asked for Monogamy from her but only hoped to "be there" when it "didn't happen"  . And my LTR left me when she found a guy who could be "totally monogamous" with her and I wasn't even there. I never viewed myself as "promiscuous" but selective. So in my search for a female partner, I want her to be able to accept "the attentions of two male at the same time" so that a Couple that "plays" together; should "stay together"!After all, the female should be "the main focus of attention" in a MFM 3some Who else feels this way? |
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