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rm_MindFucks4U 48M/45F
17 posts
2/20/2015 5:31 pm
BBC


So, since joining this site, I have constantly been asked if I like BBC. I have also seen many women or couples post comments that they are looking for BBC. So, I recently was with a black man, who was very well-endowed. Well, just for the record, there is no difference between that and being with a white man who has a big dick. I have come to the conclusion that the<b> infatuation </font></b>with it must simply be the taboo component of it.

The gentleman I was with was a perfect gentleman, very sensual, and very soft. How exactly is that any different than being with a white man who has respect for a lady?

These are my thoughts on the entire concept. This<b> infatuation </font></b>with BBC and classifying it as such is one of the types of social norms that has contributed to the continuation of our viewing people of different colors and races and being so different from us. Why can't we all just appreciate every color and race for their unique qualities but stop trying to continue stereotypes that are negative, such as black men only being good for their dicks. I have met or talked to many black men who are extremely kind, respectful, and intellectual. I do not think of them for how much dick they can bring to the table.

Anyway, I just finally had a reference point for answering the question about BBC and thought that i would share my thoughts.

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tboogie398 49M
387 posts
2/20/2015 6:18 pm

"Why can't we all just appreciate every color and race for their unique qualities but stop trying to continue stereotypes that are negative such as black men only being good for their dicks"

Is my point valid,.. I dont know,..depends where your head's at when you read it


DIVISION77 47M
8325 posts
2/20/2015 6:40 pm

It's all about attraction and what we want.

Virtually all of the women I've been with were white, usually very pale.

I attract a variety, but I only go for pale brunettes and redheads.

I think there is a difference between races and ethnicities. The pheromones are different and the smell/taste is different.

My hypothesis is that white women are more attracted to men of color, but due to social taboos and other factors tend to date their own. Some of the women I've been with have only wanted Hispanic men, they didn't date white men at all. I suspect that is true respective to other races/ethnicities as well.



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rm_MindFucks4U 48M/45F
6 posts
2/21/2015 9:49 am

Well, I am as white skinned as they come. Yes, I could possibly see something about the skin contrast, but once again I think it is more of the fact that it is so taboo that it is a turn on for most. With regard to pheromones, I didn't find myself wanting to sniff him or lick him any more than a white man. I suppose I just appreciate each individual and don't consider race or ethnicity as an I tegral part of that equation. To get more to my point, I think that some black men are great and the one that o have been with is a great friend and a great love. I definitely don't care what others think, even though I do live in the south.

He who knows not and knows that he knows not is a child, teach him.
He who knows not and knows not that he knows not is a fool, shun him.
He who knows and knows not that the knows is asleep, wake him.
He who knows and knows that he knows is wise, follow him
.


camper789 69M
2380 posts
2/21/2015 3:24 pm

Good evening. Yes, there is the "forbidden fruit" factor. But if a person is intelligent, well-mannered, good personality, and sensuous, skin color shouldn't matter.


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