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Married/ not married...blah blah blah
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Married/ not married...blah blah blah So, having chatted with many different people on here, I've come to the conclusion that there are a plethora of hangups that most of us have. It is rare that you find a person, whether it be a single man, married man, couple M/F, bi/bi-curious, straight, etc. that have no hang-ups. It's interesting that couples will shut you down right away if you are married because they don't want the "stress, issues, baggage, drama", etc. Well, from my perspective, even though I'm not married, the only one with the stress would be the married one who has decided to branch out. The couple or person of interest has nothing to stress about unless the woman is looking for an exclusive relationship. In other words, it's not on you, it's that person that has to live with themself for that decision. Not having walked in their shoes, it's hard for me to judge the reasons why they've decided to seek an alternative lifestyle or to simply live out a fantasy that they've kept inside. Let's talk about certain taboo things that may get you thrown on the "too kinky or that's too much for us" list. So, I'm speaking not only for myself but those I've confided in on here, as far as responses that we get. Mentioning D/P (double penetration) will often get you a "she's not into that at all" response and things may spiral from there. Mention the word ANAL and many will leave the chat room, be offended, or just plain respond with an emphatic NO!!! If you say that you're straight but "curious", you might as well say your bi because people will generally think that you absolutely want same sex interaction. The seed in their minds has been planted that you want that even if you say you are kind of curious. Yikes!!! I will end this blog with the dreaded "no face pic, no response". People, I'm sorry if I offend anyone, but we need to lighten up a bit. It's not only a risk to send a face pic if you're trying to be completely discreet but, in my experience, many won't always send you one back. That's lousy in my book. If you demand one then you should honor that request by returning the favor. It takes a certain level of trust to send a face pic to perfect strangers. Whatever happened to the excitement of meeting someone for the first time and having the option of either liking what you see or not. There is always a classy, non-confrontational way of saying, "I' sorry, I don't think the chemistry is there but it was nice to meet you". We are grown ups, aren't we? Let's be careful out there but also respect people's wants and needs without being so judgemental |
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