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NSA Turning to Love or Infatuation  

HotSJCouple 61M
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12/22/2014 2:06 am
NSA Turning to Love or Infatuation
How many of you have had the problem of a woman or man that you made it perfectly clear that we were going to be fuck buddies and had to be discreet? Then it turns to love on their part or a truly infatuation. If so take the poll and explain what happened in your situation, I know that I cannot be the only one in this situation.
Yes, we both fell in love
Yes, he fell in love with me and I didnt with him
Yes, she fell in love with me and I didnt fall in love with her
Yes, she fell in infatuation and ruined a perfectly good relationship
Yes, he fell in love with a perfectly good relationship
She went over the top and became a stalker
He went over the top and became a stalker
No, everyone here has understood what the rules were from the begining


boricuadelsur 46M
505 posts
12/24/2014 8:12 am

 Yeah, I had a bad experience, she completely ruined our deal..it was supposed to be a friend with benefits type deal, we only met twice in the span of 4 months and we never really had sex, we only limited ourselves to oral sex on both occasions. But then I got a call from a friend of mine telling me that he knows that I have a girlfriend. I told him to explain what he meant, and he said that woman's brother worked with him, and supposedly she been saying that we were a couple and that we were going out....she told them my name, what I do for a living, and we hadn't seen each other in 2 months I was totally shocked.....I had to stop her cold in her tracks, because she was saying things that were not true......what pissed me off was that she didn't understand the concept of DISCRETION. After I broke of the deal, she texted me 2 months after saying she still loved me....I got scared at that point, a person who I only been with twice in the span of 4 months comes out and says that. To get her of my back I told that I was going out with somebody else, and that I was in a serious relationship now, that I needed her to leave me alone.....it worked. Lesson learned though. I have to be more selective and have a screening process.


HotSJCouple 61M
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12/28/2014 4:33 am

 You are lucky it worked. I assume you weren't physically attracted to her? Good luck finding that discreet and FWB lady!


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