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Today's musings .... Random thoughts....  

hotnsexy69 61F
12 posts
1/26/2015 7:29 am
Today's musings .... Random thoughts....
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matt-battler 50M
199 posts
1/26/2015 7:46 am

 Hello hotnsexy,

This is a casual dating site, there is no obligation to sleep with every person that you meet just because it's a sexually charged atmosphere. As you say, often mutual attraction is lacking when you meet someone face to face and nobody should expect you to do something you don't want to do. Fundamentally people should not have a problem with you if you meet up as agreed and you were the person you said you were online.

Before meeting people just say that you hope there's an attraction there but you're not making any promises, if a guy has a major problem with that stand your ground, you will have plenty of other offers after all.

In terms of what to wear, perhaps this conundrum can be dealt with by wearing respectable outerwear that doesn't attract the wrong kind of attention, with sexy underwear beneath. I've been on dates where I can see the underwear protruding at the margins of the outerwear, but it's only visible up close. You know there's something special underneath and you want to rip their clothes off when you get them alone.

I hope this helps - you're definitely not on the wrong site if you're active, you actually do meet people and your aspiration is to have fun with them


Chillyfuns 47M
6 posts
1/28/2015 7:48 am

 This pretty much a place to meet like minded people in the hope that you take it to the next level after you meet. There is defiantly an expectation of a much higher chance that sex will happen. Amusingly some people can be very coy indeed when you meet them in real life. It's like "if I come out and talk about sex straight away they might be scared off".

Going for dinner on a first meet is a bit too much for me, hard to escape quickly with out being rude. However dinner does allow ample time for egg shenanigans.

Chillyfun


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