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Basic guide to contacting women on AFF
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Basic guide to contacting women on AFF The following is purely from my point of view, a British 38 year old woman. I'm a former<b> dominatrix </font></b>(ten years), brothel receptionist and assistant for straight porn. Little offends or shocks me. Seen it, done it, bought the t-shirt and the tea towel. Key ring too. It's not a definitive guide or about everyone on here, just from my point of view. After a 12 years hiatus from vanilla sex with men (largely gay), I decided to throw myself back into the pool here to see if I could find some like minded people to have fun with. In the last three weeks, I've met some funny, interesting and fascinating people and a whole lot of idiots (just like real life). Boys...most of you know how to approach a woman but some of you need schooling. Yes we're all here for the same thing but a little etiquette is appreciated. I don't respond to faceless pictures. I need a face in mind before we chat. If you've only one picture on your profile, especially if it's one of a model's torso.... nah. I like a few pictures to get an overall idea. It shows you're more likely to be genuine. I understand some don't want to out yourselves on here but you can always send a photo. And none of this "I'm having difficulty uploading a photo" nonsense. In this day and age, that's a rubbish excuse. Sending small tiny res pics? You stole those didn't you? Willy wavers, imagine life before the internet (gasp). If you came up to me in a regular bar and waved your greasy pole in my face, I'd swat it away. Same here. Nothing wrong with having a few on your profile to show off your goods but not in the initial introduction please. Tacky. As I've put on my profile, if you have a photo and I don't respond, sorry but we're not a match. Harsh truth is, women outweigh men vastly on here and we can take our pick. But don't give up. There is someone for everyone regardless of shape, ethnicity, age and size. Women generally operate on a different sexual level than men, we're more responsive to those who can get inside our head. The brain is the largest sexual organ in the body after all. If your profile text has one line or says "just ask" we're not likely to. Seems an effort drafting a sexual CV? Well that's exactly what your profile is, an advert to getting some. We don't need your life history but a bit of effort would be lovely. Ooh and please don't use txt spk, especially "lol". Such a turn off. You're not 12. Time wasters. I understand some of you are so used to wanking behind a computer screen and have forgotten how to communicate with a woman, please don't bother us. Keep on wanking (and use lube, less chafing). If on first contact you write "Hi I'm horny and want to meet now", no. Nope. No matter how randy I'm feeling. Have a wank or go or go see one of the wonderful people who work in the worlds oldest profession. Tip them too. Don't write anything on the internet you wouldn't say to someone's face. Abusive, rude and aggressive messages ignored. Grow up. Married and attached folk, if you're in a polyamorous or open relationship, no problem but those getting their kicks from sneaking around? Not for me I'm afraid. Demanding nudey photos? No. Some girls are more than happy getting their bits out and there's nothing wrong with that (quite enjoy looking at them myself) it's just not for me. CD/TV/TSs, queer, kinky and non heteronormative folk, there is no shame in who you are. The world is full of various fruits. We're all human, scratching around the face of the planet making our way through. How ever you choose to do that is up to you. You're not hurting anyone (well..as long as it's safe, sane and consensual) and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Not getting any action on Adult Dating zone? Get on IM. Seriously. OK I'm done. Good luck and great sex to you all  |
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a most excellent post and I could not agree more to all your points!!!!!!
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This blog did make me smile.It`s funny how many older guys still wanna act as if they are twelve years old and have never met a woman in their life.I mean I`m no great one for chatting up women or even have a massive brain but even I know that waggling your dick in front of them may not get the best reaction. As someone who found a great lass on here a few years ago and had a great relationship I couldn`t agree more with you Merkin. Have fun up there in London lass and may those you meet treat you with respect! What the hell-Life`s too short!
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Well basically there is no one looking for anything serious in this page. No one even read the messages or reply, The IM is a joke, again no one answer. Millions of users, all fake or inactive, or just watching. It is really a waste of time, better go down the pub and get the local girls than wait here for any answers. Woman wait too much here . They want the perfect prince.
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