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Vanilla is boring  

guitarkeith61 62M
2 posts
8/4/2015 9:24 pm
Vanilla is boring


Imagine having only one type of sex with your partner, specifically<b> mutual masturbation. </font></b>It becomes boring quickly.

My ex did not tell me she had uterine problems, i.e. fibroids. This meant that I could not have vaginal sex with her without using a condom, and she could not take hormones.

For a while sex with a condom was okay, but it was lacking. I would get frustrated not being able to feel the full on of her vagina.

After the boredom set in, the only way I could cum was with her hand. That was okay, but it was only one flavor. She refused to give me oral sex, even though I was more than willing to give it to her. I enjoy it.

Another problem with our sex is that she would just lay there. Sure, her hand was busy, but she did not have a good sense of eroticism and what would turn me on. Here I would be kissing, caressing, nibbling . . . in other words, I was doing all the work.

There's a lyric, "Loving you was like loving the dead . . ." It was like that. Getting turned on became more and more difficult.

Lovers out there, turn each other on, find out what the person wants, what makes them go crazy. Remember, vanilla is boring.

keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
8/4/2015 10:56 pm

Seems like she didn't care at all. Did she give the hand jobs with enthusiasm? How do you think she would describe it if she were here? (And being honest)

Good advice, and good thing she's an ex.

Vanilla occurs via lack of communicating.

blog on!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/5/2015 6:20 am

I don't get the fibroids and the condom thing. Lots of women , me included, have them. Never heard you have to use a condom.


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