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Quote Of The Day: 12-8-20
Quote Of The Day: 12-8-20 "She could feel the echo of lovemaking in her body in the same way she could feel the rock and shift of waves after a day of swimming, long after she left the water" - Abby Geni, The Wildlands, 2018 In Luv, Lite, Laffter ... |
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The meme is accurate ?* Trust enables you to push your own boundaries.
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The body may feel the aftereffects but the mind decides if those actions deserve remembrance. Muscle memory can play a role as well. Pushing oneself to new plateaus whether it’s sexual or athletic in nature is a very human trait. Never let fear inhibit trying new things. My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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To expand upon sexyldy1000's comment: The boundaries that push against (or collapse from) fear contain the evolving corpus of our *trust*. Psychologists understand trust as having four elements- consistency, compassion, communication and competency. They react in response to our experience and are the *tonics* by which we mitigate fear. Authentic BDSM is prescriptive and ritualistic; designed to build trust by reinforcing each of its four elements. Over time and repetition, using increasing intensities, kink pushes the *edge* of our fears deeper into the realm of submission and disaffiliation (desire to flee), bringing arousal and pleasure into what were once our *no-fly zones*. So it is in progressing a *connection* into intimacy. Humans being....well, humans, there is no reliable panacea of process or timeline. If conditions are ripe, *things* move rapidly. Other times, patience and abidance are essential. What is assured is that *trust* is omnipotent. In remaining steadfastly attentive to consistency, compassion, communication and competency, one will, in time, harvest love's (or lust's) bountiful and amazing fruits.
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Good morning my friend, what a great quote and so very true too we must have the utmost trust in our partners, so that we can take our sexy adventures to so many new heights. I hope you enjoy your Hump Day..
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The meme is accurate ?* Trust enables you to push your own boundaries. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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The body may feel the aftereffects but the mind decides if those actions deserve remembrance. Muscle memory can play a role as well. Pushing oneself to new plateaus whether it’s sexual or athletic in nature is a very human trait. Never let fear inhibit trying new things. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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To expand upon sexyldy1000's comment: The boundaries that push against (or collapse from) fear contain the evolving corpus of our *trust*. Psychologists understand trust as having four elements- consistency, compassion, communication and competency. They react in response to our experience and are the *tonics* by which we mitigate fear. Authentic BDSM is prescriptive and ritualistic; designed to build trust by reinforcing each of its four elements. Over time and repetition, using increasing intensities, kink pushes the *edge* of our fears deeper into the realm of submission and disaffiliation (desire to flee), bringing arousal and pleasure into what were once our *no-fly zones*. So it is in progressing a *connection* into intimacy. Humans being....well, humans, there is no reliable panacea of process or timeline. If conditions are ripe, *things* move rapidly. Other times, patience and abidance are essential. What is assured is that *trust* is omnipotent. In remaining steadfastly attentive to consistency, compassion, communication and competency, one will, in time, harvest love's (or lust's) bountiful and amazing fruits. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Good morning my friend, what a great quote and so very true too we must have the utmost trust in our partners, so that we can take our sexy adventures to so many new heights. I hope you enjoy your Hump Day.. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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