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I am not dead  

LiveLifeDoU 69F  
1163 posts
10/17/2015 1:47 pm
I am not dead

I had a funny, interesting chat in the BBW room yesterday. This blog in no way is a rant, a criticism, nothing negative. It is must my observation and the chat actually made me chuckle a little.

I am a 60 year old female. Not married. Not attached. Divorced since 1994. I am often one of the oldest chatters in a room. However, that doesn't mean I don't like to flirt...and because most everyone in the room is younger than I am...I flirt with younger men. And they flirt back. Sometimes they are serious, as they have no age boundaries...and sometimes it's just for fun and we both know it. I am always sincere in my flirting...and I expect they are as well, tho that does have to be taken with a grain of salt since I usually don't know them.

I do have age limits though they are not written in stone. I have been on Adult Dating zone for about five years now, off and on. I came back this time about five months ago. This is the first time I've encountered young men interested in older bbw's. Hence why my rules are not written in stone....I have not had a lot of time to process this concept. I am very, very cautious with anyone under 50 years old. There are men who think bbw's and especially older bbw's are desperate and therefore easy. I am neither. I like sex as much as the next woman. I have been burned. I can be quite naive. So I'm cautious.

Yesterday evening, a 40+ attractive young man and I were flirting...casually...he was playfully friendly with several ladies and it was just fun. He was not aggressive, just quietly down to earth and many ladies appreciated that. In the course of all the chat going on between all of us, I indicated my flirting was just harmless, just for fun. Another 40+ young man asked why it was just for fun. I replied that 40 something was a bit too young for me.

Then he asked....'why is that? Things don't work anymore?'

I just had to laugh. What an assumption and a jump to a conclusion. I carefully worded my response. I said "Nope, everything works better than ever, hon. I just have age boundaries but enjoy flirting. I am not dead.'

I hoped that my response was not overly critical of his statement. After I thought about it, it was actually a reasonable thing to think. I'd just never had anyone say that to me and it made me laugh. I got a few ^5's from other people in the room so I know I wasn't the only one who does not consider being over 60 a reason to stop being interested in sex or to have things 'not work anymore'. Sure, things do change with age. Maybe that's why I gravitate toward men closer to my own age: I know they also are experiencing changes.
But, I have always been open-minded. Putting too many boundaries up and you could miss out on something important and fun.

Thanks for listening. Have a great day.
LiveLifeDoU 69F  
2199 posts
3/2/2016 7:33 am

 Vancouver Island is not far at all, considering the fact that 99% of the ppl I come in contact with live thousands of miles away...it's the Adult Dating zone rule yanno...fun ppl usually have to live way too far away for a real life meet. Sounds like you just moved to Vancouver Island? I hope you are enjoying your new digs. I think Buchart Gardens is on Vancouver Island? Very pretty place.


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