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Thoughts on messages...
Thoughts on messages... So, having become an icebreaker, I'm getting quite a lot of messages. Most are on the lines of: 'Love your pictures, would you like to chat?', but then there are these ones: ' Hi, I'm X: want to suck my cock?'. Now, I like to suck cock as much as the next girl, BUT: I like getting to know the man attached first! I don't mind a man being direct about his fantasies, but I like being wooed a bit, too. It's a bit like profile-pics. A lot of guys have dick-pics as their profile-pics here. And a lot of guys send them in their messages, too (sometimes in their first message). Again: try being a bit more subtle! I suppose that's why I tend to lean towards a more mature man - there is conversation to be had. I've had young men message me (and I mean: young enough for me to be their mum, without being a teenage mother), all full of hormones, wanting an older woman. First of all: read my profile, don't just look at my pictures: I put in an age bracket for a reason! I specify that I need an experienced man, because I'm still very much learning. But I've found that I also need an intellectual stimulation, and that involves conversation - not just sex-talk. Am I setting the bar too high? I don't think so! Some men here might think that a woman who has fantasies, and is here, is a slut, and just ready to jump into bed with all and sundry. I'm not! I know I'm not likely to find a life-partner here, but I'm not just looking to get laid, either. I'm looking for stimulation on many levels, something 'Hi, I'm X: want to suck my cock?' is not.... |
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Well always a good start to be a gentleman, right??
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