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Older men with younger women. Is it wrong?.  

shyguyblue63 60M
0 posts
12/30/2015 5:07 am
Older men with younger women. Is it wrong?.


I'm a 52 year old man that spent most of his adult life as a married man.A few years ago my marriage ended. After taking time to heal from the split I began dating again. At first I tried dating women that were near the same age as me and it seemed like I was having a lot of success in<b> making new friends </font></b>and having a growing list of women to spend my free time with. However I was not having the same success in satisfying my sexual needs. A little over a year ago I was approached by a woman much younger than myself 51/24. This was something that was very hard for me to deal with. Yes it was a big boost to my ego to have her interested in me however after a lifetime of believing a guy my age hooking up with a girl her age was a dirty old man and a predator, kept me from accepting her advances.Since she was someone I was around on a fairly regular basis and her advances continued I agreed to let her put her phone number into my phone in hopes of reducing her advances. A short time later after another date with an "age appropriate" woman ended with a hug, a good buzz, and a need for sexual release that wouldn't be denied, I decided to use the number in my phone to talk to the younger woman while I achieved sexual release. I'm not quite sure who said what to who or who's idea it was but that young lady ended up coming to my place that late Fri/early Sat and not leaving until Mon morning during which time we both achieved sexual release numerous times. We continued to see each other for awhile after that dated enjoyed each other's company in the bedroom and out in public where the stares and whispers were ever present. Since dating her I have dated 2 other young women 29 and 32 and have decided that I prefer dating younger women.They appreciate the time and attention a man gives them and still have the desire to be sexually active. Tell me what you think? Am I wrong to date women that much younger than myself?

Needaltlsomthn2 58F
709 posts
12/30/2015 5:26 am

I like you have found that "age appropriate" men have no interest in sex, most men my age can barely walk across a parking lot let alone enjoy a work out in the bedroom. Sad but the majority of our society is so Obese and un-healthy. So now I find myself a "cougar". I do feel "odd" in public, but they don't seem to mind so I try not to either. I have set my age limit to 30, mainly because I have a 20 yo daughter and she jokes that younger is her "territory". LOL

If you don't stand for something , you will fall for anything !


shyguyblue63 replies on 12/30/2015 10:00 am:
Yes I agree part of the reason women my age don't work for me is because they show the effects menopause and unhealthy habits, which hinder the physical attraction. It's good that your daughter can joke with you about your dating choices. I have only one child a son that's 27. I have noticed my new dating habits are having an adverse effect on our relationship. I can tell he is not comfortable bringing his lady friends around like he used to. I hope it doesn't take long for him to realize that even though I'm dating women his age I do still have morals and there are lines that a decent father does not cross. Thank you for your response

GB_Cple 73M/62F  
3118 posts
12/30/2015 6:00 am

, whatever rocks your boat I also have in recent times , not dated but spanked and bedded a few much younger women. They don't stay long but it's still worth it .)


shyguyblue63 replies on 12/30/2015 10:05 am:
I see by your profile that you are in a relationship so as long as your partner and the other woman are both ok with you having some good naughty fun why not. Also since you seem to have a partner it's probably better that the younger women don't stay long.Thank you for your response

Shyguyinaz 59M
1624 posts
12/30/2015 7:43 am

It's not wrong if it's right for the two involved. Go for it and ignore the haters!


shyguyblue63 replies on 12/30/2015 10:22 am:
Sad part of life is there will always be haters. I've come to the decision that I'm not going to change my dating habits because of them. Unfortunately no matter how their behavior is dealt with by me, it still has an adverse affect on the quality of my dates. Thanks for your response

wacebook5 30M
808 posts
12/30/2015 7:52 am


shyguyblue63 replies on 12/30/2015 10:25 am:
Thanks for your response. However, I'm not quite sure what it means

Tjregal1976affx 66M  
116 posts
3/8/2016 5:14 pm

I am consider a relationship with a 29 year old. At first I tried to discourage her from going after me but after reading all the forums on May/December or age difference. I think I will go for it. Age is just a number. Who's know sex might be good if we get that point of the relationship. Right now we are at Emailing stage and have not met yet. I hope we meet pretty soon.


Tjregal1976affx 66M  
116 posts
3/8/2016 7:30 pm

Better version of earlier post.
I am considering a relationship with a 29 year old. I don't consider myself a catch but she is. A tall blonde. At first I tried to discourage her from coming after me because of the age difference but after reading all the forums on May/December or age differences relationships. I think I will go for it. Age is just a number. Who's know sex might good or great if we get to that point of the relationship. I have no kids and hope the Daddy issue does not come up. Right now we are at the Emailing stage and have not met yet. I hope we will meet soon.Read this Tjregal1976affx


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