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What does it mean when you dream about your ex?  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
4/13/2016 12:23 am
What does it mean when you dream about your ex?

First truth: I rarely remember my dreams. Only if I wake up disturbed by them.

Next truth:

Neither of these guys are truly an ex. They are "almost boyfriends."

Next, next truth:

I already looked it up on the internet, and I'm not satisfied with that interpretation.

First, let's talk about last night's dream. In fifth grade, in real life, Eddie F sent me a note, via another classmate. When I unfolded the lined notebook scrap of paper, it read:

"Do you like me?
___ Yes
___ No
___ Maybe"

I checked "yes" and passed it back to him. Then, he sent me a note asking if I wanted to "go steady." I took the question home to my mom. Mom said I needed to tell him "No, I'm not ready to go steady." Because I loved and trusted my mom, I did as told.

I've blamed Mom ever since for ruining my life. If I'd gone steady with Eddie, my whole life would have been different. I'd likely have gone out with Brett C my freshman year, gotten pregnant, had an abortion, been the subject of lots of nasty rumors and not been the person who went proudly off to Japan as an exchange student for my senior year of high school. And then off to college. Well, that's my story, and I'm stickin' to it.

So, thanks, Mom, for getting me out of that Red State! Now for my dream...

Last night I dreamed that Eddie F (now a FB friend who, after going to U Dub and trying to be a musician in Seattle, lives in our hometown with his beautiful wife and two lovely , just down the street from his childhood home, the one I'd ride past on my hoping to see him), well, Eddie showed up in a park where I was picnicking solo. Walking past me, he dropped a couple things on my checked tablecloth: a Philippe Patek watch (which I don't even think I've ever seen in real life; it was very thin gold and sexy) and the heavy silver bracelet he wore with it. The bracelet read "Dateable."

I turned to look at him and asked, "Is this the adult version of the Fifth Grade Note?" The answer was "yes." Eddie F was finally available to me again some 40 years later.

Then, I woke up. I guess I still needed to ask Mom if I could NOW go steady with Eddie.

A couple nights in a row now, I've dreamed about The Unavailable Guy (TUG), the one I adored for the past year and who was "fond" of me. Mostly, it seems like I harangued him about what an idiot he is not to fall in love with me, saying all the things I haven't had an opportunity to say in person.

The best interpretation I read on the internet was that if you dream about an "ex," it's because you miss parts of how you felt in the relationship. It does NOT mean you necessarily want to get back with that person.

So, have you dreamed about an ex or exes? Tell me about it. What do you think it means?

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BiPolyBabe69 aka Angie

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4/13/2016 12:45 am

 Did you go to bed horny??


bipolybabe69 replies on 4/13/2016 11:27 am:
No, mostly I wake up horny. I rarely masturbate at night because I just don't feel the desire.

My libido is much more "on" in the early morning.

wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
4/15/2016 11:05 am

 unresolved issues. what ifs.

and sometimes just fun...
You cannot conceive the many without the one.


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