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What's up with NSA, FWB aka Fuck Buddies?  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
7/11/2016 2:19 pm
What's up with NSA, FWB aka Fuck Buddies?


After watching incredible 4th of July fireworks at Lake Arrowhead, I was sitting in the boat on the lake, talking with my friend Tim. I asked him why he thinks so many men on this site and any other dating site want a FWB (Friend with Benefits), Fuck Buddy, casual or NSA (No Strings Attached) Sex?

"They're lonely, bored with the wife or girlfriend and want to find someone sexy who'll be happy to do all the porn star stuff and not expect anything besides sex," he replied.

I don't get it. So, what is it that men --or other women-- find so appealing about the idea of casual sex, NSA, FWB or Fuck Buddies?

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BiPolyBabe69


Allnfun1111 60M
30 posts
7/11/2016 2:31 pm

I had a friend in school that had a boyfriend out of town and she just wanted to have sex. Worked out good for me.


Tom226922 35M

7/11/2016 2:49 pm

Also they may be too buys for a relationship


hrdallnght4u 67M

7/11/2016 2:49 pm

I have no wife or Girlfriend..so I am looking for more than just fwb..

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


Tom226922 35M

7/11/2016 2:49 pm

Busy


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/11/2016 3:47 pm

The simplest answer would of course been that this is what people are looking for.Here it's out in the open and what women want.On the vanilla that aren't really vanilla sites they call themselves serial daters but why confuse the issue.It must be nice to be able to tap into the thought process of every guy on this planet.

Using more than all the road!


DiscreteFunSkr17 63M
120 posts
7/11/2016 4:00 pm

Friends = Those that you do things with - shopping, movies, trips, shows, bars, dinner, .....

Benefits = Sexual activities of varying interests, positions, duration, gender(s), quantity of gender(s), ....

Put them together = Friends with Benefits

Fuck Buddy = One purpose only sex. Cum & Go, Casual Sex, Booty Call, Don't call me in the morning I will be long gone, ....

Which do you prefer?

This is one of many sites that provides an opportunity to find either or both or neither.

Be Safe and Enjoy Life!


Lifes2short451 59M
14 posts
7/11/2016 4:00 pm

Some want a FWB because they want some variety and excitement, but are emotionally or otherwise unavailable to be a full time companion or lover.
If it works for both people, it can be a great addition to one's life.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/11/2016 6:49 pm

"one of these things is not like the other.... one of these things just doesn't belong...."

I don't count FWB in with NSA or FB. The former implies a friendship and for me that includes time spent outside the bedroom. That's ideal, especially if I have a few FWB because I get to do social/friend-type things with them, have great sex in different ways and still have time for me and girlfriends and family.

NSA and FB are for people who don't want to have to talk to each other until the next time one of them wants to get laid. I like to talk.


bipolybabe69 62F
284 posts
7/12/2016 10:42 am

    Quoting mcmaniac:
    I wanted NSA or a FWB right after my marriage ended, but now I'd just settle for a regular girlfriend.
"Settle for a girlfriend" is exactly what I hoped to explore and understand. I don't know if it's language that gets in the way of why I don't "get" why anyone would seek NSA or FB.

For me, sex without intimacy and the possibility of developing greater intimacy and connection is just grinding body parts together. Even when I like the fit and feel of the particular body parts (and feel okay about the person attached to them), it gets a little boring to me if we're not diving deeper into what I know is possible for connecting with another human being through sex. And I can't really open to someone if I don't have a feeling of trust which takes time and (for me) talk to develop.

So what do you think might be reasons someone would prefer sex without deeper intimacy?


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
7/13/2016 11:26 am

emotionally stunted??

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


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