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Zimm4h - Today's clown loses it over a glitch!  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
10/16/2018 12:25 pm
Zimm4h - Today's clown loses it over a glitch!
Just another day in the circus here. Today, while being signed on to IM, Zimm4h writes me and seems glad to see me on. In the past, I do recall chatting to him and to my recollection, didn't have an issue with him in the previous brief chats that we've had in the past. We haven't spoken in quite a long time, so anyway, today he reaches out to me and seems cheery to say hi and to reunite through IM.

During our chat, he claims to receive those weird glitchy squares that plenty of people seem to deal with on this site. He claims that it's me and only me that he gets them from. He begins riding the topic and escalating the issue about it. In turn, I make it clear to him that it is NOT just me that has this issue with some weird squares that get sent across to him. I politely and respectfully explain my guesses on why they might exist and I show him a blog that also shows other people on this site dealing with the same issue. I didn't think anything of it, these squares are common and everyone just ignores them. I figured he'd understand the info I provide and we'd be focusing our efforts on chat from there on. Nope! What does he then do, but get annoyed AT ME for something that is out of my control. He rolls his eyes in an emoji, telling me that he's not interested and it's annoying ( Ummm, yeah. Square glitches ARE annoying, duh! ). I ask what he's not interested in, out of confusion. He tells me he lacks interest in those who investigate the squares! Ugh!!!! Does this mentality make any sense??? If you don't care about the factual info I'm providing you, then quit riding the topic of why you receive them, quit being concerned over it and quit being annoyed at me personally for something that's out of my control! What idiocy! He's annoyed at me, the messenger, who is being kind and respectful in talking to him, replying to him, explaining what I know to him, providing info and factual proof to him that others go through this here. From there it's all downhill. He says that I'm running this stuff down his throat and then simply clicks out of IM ignorantly and rudely. This coming from someone who kept riding the topic of square from the start, yet I'm retaliated on, mistreated and accused of running this down his throat when I'm merely the<b> messenger </font></b>passing on info, guesses and the only knowledge that I know to him, that he might not have otherwise known.

Might I make something very clear here. Throughout what you observe in the screen shots during conversation I had between this member, he claims several times in getting a glitch ( square ) from me, yet nowhere in the pics do I see anything of what he's claiming. Yes, it's known that what someone sees on their side, doesn't always reflect what the other person sees on their side. Just keep that in mind as he claims "I get boxes from only you" and "there's another square", yet none are visible at all on my end of the deal here, which obviously proves that there is a major issue going on behind the workings of this site or incompatibility issues between user to user or platform to platform being used. Nothing of which should be a reason for members here to get mad at one another for petty things that are out of everyone's control. Let's face it, anyone who has been on this site a while definitely knows this site is buggy, unstable and even has a shady history. No mystery!

The analogy is like being in a store with another shopper who is a stranger. The lights go out in a power outage and the person is annoyed at the other shopper for it.
Another analogy might be like blaming a customer in line for being short-changed by the cashier.
Do we not see how ridiculous these analogies are when we actually see them in a different light like this and examine how idiotic this all is???

Again, this is how we're treated here for being a 'good guy', for opening up IM's and for taking our personal time in chatting to men here. As always, there should be no mystery why women have no will, no care and no need to be here to chat to or meet with you losers! You give us absolutely zero reasons to!! Clown! Just another one exposed for you to all see. Please be sure to reach out to each and every one of these rude members and show your support by letting them know that their actions are unacceptable. If you people truly want change, you have to make it happen by taking action. The pics below say it all in conversation held. As always, I thank my loyal supporters and viewers here.

Zimm4h

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
10/16/2018 2:21 pm

 sorry you are getting so many bad ones


Banana_Canyon replies on 10/17/2018 12:59 pm:
Never-ending ordeal here, hun. I address one goofball at a time as they're dealt to me. That's all I can do.

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/16/2018 6:08 pm

 Odd that you'd get two like that in one day and did you notice: they are both form PA!!!!! And what squares???
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Banana_Canyon replies on 10/17/2018 12:58 pm:
Yes, they are both from PA. Not too shocking, I guess, since I myself am from PA. Also not shocking that two rude folks contact me in a single day here...pretty typical to get a handful of these cases on a daily basis here, actually.

As for squares, they are common glitchy symbols ( literally squares ) that plague this site member to member. Also pretty common on this unstable site and there are some blogs out there on it. What is puzzling is how someone claims they get them, yet I see nothing on my side....as shown clearly in these pics of my conversation in this blog. I have different theories of why they occur, but honestly nobody really seems to have debunked the true meaning.

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
10/16/2018 10:06 pm

 BLOCK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Banana_Canyon replies on 10/17/2018 12:52 pm:
You're missing the punchline of why I do these blogs. Blocking people is rude. That's not the solution to any change because ignorance isn't ever an answer to solving any issue. The idea here is anti-block/anti-ignore. Addressing issues through action creates social change. I will only utilize the block feature when someone is a posing a personal threat to me.

Omaker90 33M

11/20/2018 7:12 pm

 Now reading this. I have noticed I have gotten the square as a reply a couple times in our conversation. I thought It was just you sending me an emoji.


Banana_Canyon replies on 11/23/2018 3:14 pm:
No, not an emoji at all, dear. Refer to another user's blog entitled "getting strange squares in IM". That should explain the phenomenon a bit better. Or if not explain, it at least provides proof that this is a common issue on this site that isn't exclusive to just a few people.

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