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Meeting a Stranger for Sex  

TopTwentyPercent 60M
124 posts
11/17/2017 9:07 am
Meeting a Stranger for Sex


Adult Dating zone puts adults into a very unique situation. The forum opens the door to negotiations for two or more people to have sex upon their initial meeting.

I have had sex with a stranger multiple times after meeting them on Adult Dating zone. Admittedly, when I meet them, they are typically not a complete stranger. Most of the time, I know their vibe because I read and devour any writings they may have and study any available photos to the finest detail. I also attempt to engage them via email and/or text. Sometimes this leads to flirty, bordering on nasty banter, while other times my stranger is reserved. Most women I have met this way would rather save their sex and banter for an in person meeting. This of course frustrates the fuck out of me!

By the time I meet a stranger, I am hopeful that we will have sex. More than once, however, I have met someone and the chemistry was not there. More often than not, she lacks a femininity that is so important to my libido. Women that don't give off a feminine vibe don't turn me on and in some cases, make me seek a polite exit.

I have found women that work in traditionally male jobs to lack this certain femininity. Those that work in construction, driving truck or even those that are into fitness have mannerisms (not a bad body) that turn me off.

This of course is why I seek out their writing if they have posted or written much at all. Their use of words, or lack thereof is often a window into their femininity.

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People that know me are shocked when I tell them I have no game in the bar scene. I could not pick up a stranger for sex if my life depended on it. As comfortable as I am talking in front of large crowds teaching complicated scientific and environmental concepts, I don't have the wit and suave to impress a female in a crowded bar or club.

I am best at the long game. I like to seduce with my words and then when you meet me, my mannerisms simply confirm what you have been reading for weeks. Defenses are disabled. I have been told that I am even better in person!

The two most recent strangers I met were almost complete opposites in their definitions. One was intended to be a sexual hook up. We met at a restaurant, has some food and dove into detailed discussions of our sexual history and within a couple of hours we had both made the choice that sex with this body would be great.

The second stranger was "Curvy Girl". We actually met on a vanilla site (she now has an account here on Adult Dating zone) to see if we might enjoy seeing each other in more of a dating framework. In other words, I didn't expect to sleep with her that first night. It just happened; It was life affirmation personified! Her femininity was striking and i had more than an above average attraction. She invited me back to her place and under the ruse of watching TV and cuddling on the couch, it became a first night in what has become a torrid sexual relationship.

For more information on our first date see...Before the Shots were Fired, I was Stunned

The other stranger reminded me more of my days. There was not much cuddling which would drive me to cross that sexual line, but a sudden and forceful first move. I finally had to grab her face and start kissing. The awkwardness and discomfort had to be broken and a line crossed.

At one point she admitted her nervousness and said, "I really want to follow through with this."

At this statement, I was set back. For a moment, I was thinking, "she feels like she has put too much effort in to leave without sex" and it wasn't that she was totally attracted to me. She had traveled several hours to meet me and at one point gave the indication that she was starving sexually.

In reality, she didn't have to be, but I sure enjoy it when a woman totally wants me!

I fought through that because she was very pretty and had an amazing body.

Different bodies are fun to experience. While I prefer ones with a little extra padding, I enjoy fucking a very thin, petite body as a form of "practice". Again, going back to my days, you wanted to be skillful the first time with a new body so, practice with a variety of body types, angles etc. is a good thing!

Admittedly, I struggled with "Curvy Girl's" body initially, but fortunately the woman is an orgasm machine so she has fun regardless.

I could go on and on about this subject matter and it may lead to other related posts in the next few weeks. If you have any questions or comments, please leave them below and they may become a new post themselves.

I look forward to the discussion!

It is all about attitude, approach and presentation! What is your AAP?


TopTwentyPercent 60M
317 posts
11/17/2017 9:10 am

My stranger friend is also a blogger and we agreed to post our thoughts in separate posts to go through the process of meeting a stranger for sex. I can't wait to see what she says.

"Curvy Girl" also reads everything I write.

It is all about attitude, approach and presentation! What is your AAP?


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/17/2017 12:11 pm

I prefer someone affectionate on and off the clock.
Sex with strangers is a business contact as well as
a big gamble.People will lie more just to
procure an encounter.Deep long kisses are
rare in this scenario.To much affection.

One can only hope that they're the one that
starts their day and not somewhere in the middle of it.

Using more than all the road!


TopTwentyPercent replies on 11/18/2017 10:59 am:
A business contract....I would love for you to expand your thoughts on this. I think it is so exciting to go that far, that quickly or quinch and absolute curiosity. There are so many reasons why we want something new. It could be a long discussion!

Great to see you in my space!

RedLingerieLady 51F

11/29/2017 12:13 pm

Curvy girl works for me


RedLingerieLady 51F

11/29/2017 12:15 pm

I love that you keep yourself in such great shape and have boundless energy


TopTwentyPercent replies on 12/3/2017 10:08 am:
I appreciate hearing that what I say is actually the perception of others too. I very much enjoy your sensuality!

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