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How to make AFF a safer place for us men!!  

sid_75 43M
4 posts
9/20/2017 7:35 am
How to make AFF a safer place for us men!!


OK.. men are horny most times.. and we generally don't think very well when we are horny.. And the moment a gal shows her pic.. nude or otherwise.. we tend to melt.. Testosterone takes over..!!
So just a few pointers to keep this place safe (and our wallets) for us men..!

Many girls offer sex for money - that's hooking.. but completely all right depending on your kinks.. but some caution..!
1. Be careful about paying any advances electronically. If a gal is serious about business and offering her 'services', 'friendship' etc - then prefer and insist cash in hand for the first meet. (It's your money - so YOU decide how to give it!)
2. Gals tend to get aggressive (and annoyed) if you say "let me think about it" or ask for some proof that she is actually a girl. Some will start abusing.. Some will ask an advance for proof.. These are generally fake... so better stay away!!
3. Many gals will share their numbers in the first instance for whatsapp chatting (even without any effort). Many may be genuine<b> </font></b>or hookers. That's fine, but if she asks for money - always prefer to pay cash in hand.. at least till you've met at least once.
4. Don't get swayed by sweet talk "dear" etc.. or hot pics.. anyone can give pics of gals.. even a guy.
5. Be wary of a gal who quotes a price that is at market or below (sweet deal!). She will definitely ask for an advance (paid electronically)
6.Some gals will share their number. Any will even talk to you (sweet voice, good English). They may even give their address. And then ask for an advance to meet. These are the most suave cheats. Be careful..
7. The last type of cheats are most innovative - they will show you a picture and agree for a negotiated price even. And when you finally meet her (generally a place of her choice) she would be a totally different person. Now.. for various reasons you may not be trapped and not able to run away. And she may also quote some hidden charges. Be shameless and ask all costs and charges. But even then.. in this case, there is little guarantee..

Men who have been cheated (includes me!!) can relate to the above.. and will make this a rule..!!

Having said all this.. i still feel there are lots of nice gals.. genuine ones.. whether hookers.. or lonely... and some really nice polite ones too..

Be careful.. be safe.. have fun

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
9/20/2017 8:34 am

WOW that is quite a list of things to watch out for.Any other men had this experience????

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japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
9/20/2017 9:32 am

well....i am not judging you, but you are agreeing to paying her/him from the beginning...um...that is like asking you to rob you...there are lot of people lurking around on this site, in spite of site policy...if i were me, i would report the people like that to the site...

now that's been said...even though you have never mention about paying for the sex, there are few chances you might get robbed...

but again...if you said you have money in hand, they would surely rob you...

just sayin...


qwerty1231237_ 33M
859 posts
9/20/2017 12:29 pm

good information

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LQQK7979 M
441 posts
9/23/2017 4:09 am

paying electronically to a hooker seems like a really good way to get into trouble or blackmailed


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