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Changes, dating as a not single, and other items of (dis)interest  

3FreqsOnnaLeash 54G  
92 posts
12/5/2015 2:11 pm

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7/9/2016 8:47 pm

Changes, dating as a not single, and other items of (dis)interest


We as a<b> triad </font></b>have gone through a few changes in the last few months. I have been gradually realizing that I'm missing something, and through an outside influence the topic of allowing me to go play again entered the conversation more directly. It could have gone better, there was some rushing of the issue due to my own excitement and the person we chose to be my first run off the range. We should have talked a bit more and eased into it, but I admit, I was selfish and I wanted that ass (and oh, what an ass,...whew!), she wanted my cock, and we both jumped across that line with a "fuck it, we're good friends, we can handle it" attitude. Now we know we were not entirely correct about that. So we had a couple fits and starts, but on the other side of it our<b> triad </font></b>came out with a clear set of rules, who was ready for what, and can go on in the future with me having the ability to find new playmates.
I get to find people to play with, they get veto power of course. If Deni is so inclined and said playmate is up for it, she may join me on occasion, but it's primarily just me. Jamie isn't interested in bedding other people, but is open minded should someone come along that tickles her fancy.

So. I'm reentering the dating scene. As an *attached* male.
Yay!
*thud!*

I was never any good at this shit before, I suck more at it now if anything. Honestly Deni was the hook, I just got to come along and provide the stunt penis. So this is a daunting task, but I'm happy my girls are up for it, trust me to be smart and safe, allowing me to get out and have some new adventures.
I *had* a couple ladies in mind, but knowing there's someone that's interested, and being able to make it work with schedules, , etc.,... Yeah. Still looking, trying to figure out what works after 9 years out of actively playing, all with no idea what makes one stand out in a sea of penises all vying for a handful of womens attention. Liiiiittle behind the curve, I'll admit it.

But, we do what we can. I'm gradually looking around and seeing what people use for such interactions these days. Lots to choose from, no idea what works and what doesn't, so I'll just blunder around and hope.

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