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Personal grooming....let's be real  

iabicoupleforfun 52M/47F  
8 posts
7/25/2018 1:58 pm
Personal grooming....let's be real


We have been on this website for a long time and I'm just amazed at the amount of people that don't seem to take pride in their appearance. Is there anyone else that has noticed this as much as me?

This is a sex website and what it comes down to is you're basically selling yourself to others to get the nookie, right? So, let me ask you this my friends...why wouldn't hygiene/self grooming be an important sell? You don't want to end up with someone that looks like that haven't bathed but once this year or the last few years for that matter.

That's why we always request to see a recent picture first. It's not because we are collecting photos or anything like that, but we don't want to waste our time with someone that looks like they haven't had any self cleaning in forever. Take a look at yourself and ask...."Would I fuck me meeting me for the first time?" If you should happen to hesitate at that answer at all, then get cleaned up.

Anyone at any size can take care of their appearance. You don't need to be Ken and Barbie, although that's what some people are attracted to only, and they are entitled to that. I promise you though that most people not only want discrete, they want CLEAN and discrete. Clean just doesn't mean D/D free.

Wash your hair, clean your taint, get all of the nice personal nooks and crannies. Wear something casual, but clean and take your picture. SELL YOURSELF!

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
7/25/2018 5:40 pm

personal hygiene is important to me...i keep myself clean, and i expect my partners to be clean too...how hard could that be?

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