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Likes and dislikes: A Man's Perspective (And it's not sexual..well, almost)  

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9/20/2018 8:44 am
Likes and dislikes: A Man's Perspective (And it's not sexual..well, almost)

I have been here a few weeks now and I have written to a few women whose profiles interested me. I heard back from two of them recently. Both were not looking to get involved with attached/married men. As for the rest, well....

That brings me to the reason for this post. My likes and dislikes.

For starters, I have a slight resentment for women who don't respond to me, not even to say "No thank you." After all, I do take the time to write thoughtful, t-a-i-l-o-r-e-d messages that point out what I liked about profiles and pictures and such. Still, I cannot hold women to task on this because most of you are submerged in messages, which generally run along the lines of "Wanna f**k?", "You're hawt", "DTF", and the like. And of course, most of you don't have enough time to respond to everyone who writes. Alright, so I am not really mad at y'all. I can understand.

I avoid writing to profiles which don't say much, even if the pictures are eye catching. If I am going to invest my time writing to someone, I'd better know something about them. If nude pics are all a person has got to show or say about themselves, I am not going to send a nude of mine as a conversation starter.

Now for the men. I wonder how so many guys on here (and other sites) can reduce themselves to just their penises? Is that all you've got, mate? I know many of you are honest, hardworking men with plenty to say; guys I'd probably see on the way to work. How do you go about transforming yourself into just a penis? Why the fuck don't you start respecting yourself? If you can't respect yourself, how the fuck can you expect someone else to respect you? Unless you are looking to be humiliated sexually (I suppose the personal aspect follows, but I am not sure), I don't understand the reason for this voluntary personal degradation and dehumanization.

Just one last point. I know women like to be pursued. In a world resounding with demands for gender equality, this insistence on a Victorian ideal is incongruous. Hearing from hundreds of guys would probably make a woman feel wanted. But how many dick pictures and rude, gruff inquiries (the short demeaning sentences I talked about earlier) can you take? I am sure most of the time, my message to a woman is lost amidst the torrent of messages that crowd her mailbox. Maybe, maybe, she never gets to see me even though I have taken the time and effort to reach out to her. Isn't that bad?

So, if you are a smart, sensible woman who knows a good thing when she sees it, why don't you break the mold, step outside the box, do the hell away with tradition, and write to me? I will see it, and yes, I will respond, even if it's just to say, "Thanks, but no thanks."

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