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The meet-and-greet
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The meet-and-greet I've had some fun meet and greets. They are kind of a flip of a coin. You just never know what you're going to get. You always hope for the best because after all it takes some serious arranging to make a meet and greet happen in the first place. So you don't want to failure, sometimes they flop big. I have probably had since I really started being here in September over a dozen scheduled and between 8 - 9, meet, and greets that actually happened. I've had my share of good and bad ones but nothing that has really panned out yet. I had a pleasant one last week and I hope to meet again. But only time will tell how it will end I do have time to find what I want. One of the worst guy's I met with became a<b> stalker. </font></b>I and he had maybe 10 minutes to chat and a small hug then a phone call and I had to rush away. I mean<b> stalker </font></b>literally when I told him no thank you in few days later got shity started sending threatening emails and texts. tracked down my home address found my last name stalker, kept saying how he would see me again soon. This has caused a lot of problems for me and resulted in a change of my tactic on what it takes to get to a meet and greet with me. Then a third of those that I get a meet and greet with me haven't heard from since that day. Not a text, not a phone call, not a message on here, nothing. Which is why it's a meet-and-greet and I'm grateful I didn't fuck them. Man I'd be shity since I'm looking for ongoing. Then I've had some that we've met more than once. Getting Together played around, really get more each meeting because they weren't really what I wanted but they enticed me and had the right moves to get my body going. And then go silent. Then there's my oddest and probably most disappointing meet and greet the one that was going well. With hot touching his assertiveness got me in the mood said the right things touched me just right. Had me wanting more and then with words being said and conversation happening come to realize it's one of my husband's cousin. Lol it easy to laugh at now but then it was just like someone hit the brakes. It just ended everything he was put way the fuck off. I was put off, along with being disappointed and sad. I wanted him, I wanted to bring him home, and I wanted to play. Oh well as I said I can laugh at it now. That was the event that started the concept that everyone pretty much needs to send me a face picture first if they live in my town. Just to ensure that neither me nor my husband know them or are somehow related to them. But meet-and-greets have had many purposes, changing the way I do things. It does improve some of my tactics; it's made me be a little harsher to some of you. As I've become so disappointed with so many people who said so many lines my tolerance of (let us call it) boy stupidity. That now I lower my expectations of you and what you're really going to do for me. Making it more difficult to get to that meet and greet. I'm so tired of wasting my time meeting people who are well, just a waste of my time. This blog might be making you guys wonder what makes a good meet and greet for me. That's hard to say it depends on the person, depends on what I want, on my mood, the things we've talked about, your personality helps. Hopefully we got most of that out before we meet, but not always. Sometimes being assertive is one, being attentive is another, making me feel good. I'm a selfish girl that's why I'm here I'm being greedy, I want more and I want someone to provide that for me. A good meet and greet proves that you can provide more for me and you're willing to provide more pleasure to my life. Someone proving they'll provide delight to my life, giving me the things I want, helping me get urges and desires, and then fulfilling those same urges and desires. There's more to it or other ways to go about it. I couldn't tell you exactly how or list all the things that work, with my changing mood. The person matters, the environment matters. Have you had any luck on here? Are you a person who wants to do a meet-and-greet first? Do you just want to fuck and get it over with? Are you guilty yourself of going silent on somebody after you met them or had someone gone silent on you that you hoped would get together again? Let me know in the comments below I like reading what you people have to say it brings me entertainment.  |
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1 post 2/20/2019 3:22 pm |
I have not had any successful meet and greats from this site. I've had some good conversation, promising a good get together, then silence. No, "thanks but no thanks" no "Sorry I've changed my mind" just silence. This place seems sort of weird that way. Yeah I'm sure everyone gets nervous meeting a new person for the first time. Especially when its something new to try, or something you want to explore a little before sharing with a partner. I guess its also easy to hide behind a computer or talk a good game, but shit gets real, fast, when you set a date, time, place.... I have met some fun people to hang out with through other means, but here, not so much. Not sure why.
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I'm someone who wants to meet 'n greet first. No way am I going to someone's house, etc. etc. until I've had a chance to talk with him and see how it goes first.
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2/2/2019 5:40 pm |
damn that's some scary business!
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