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The Open Heart  

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11/8/2019 1:25 pm
The Open Heart

Not my words. I just found this interesting.

Dating isn’t an interview.

Targeted questions extract ones merit isn’t communication. It’s judgement. When response is the goal, guard and skepticism attend automatically. The commonly used “ question format” backfires as increases the potential for false information. This style of assessing compatibility leaves both individuals disillusioned and frustrated. Interrogation isn’t dating. Ferreting desired answers and/or calculating errors, cannot lead you the truth. an open heart will provide the answers you seek.

The key a successful interview lies in the level of truth revealed and vital details gained. This is possible when the other person is relaxed and comfortable be themselves. When a person feels threatened, they scramble alter their story. The “truth” is eliminated in order to “ good,” when responding from a defensive position.

When fear is present, real information isn’t available. Truth is revealed in the absence of judgement.

Dating is a meet and greet event. If it’s information you seek, I can guarantee you an open heart and relaxed manner will garner more of what you want know than the turmoil of interrogation.

An open heart allows another reveal themselves. Defensiveness, forces a
false presentation.

The magical property of an open heart elicits honesty. within comfort, can the real occur. An unguarded response hasn’t been edited for approval. Without judgment attending the date as your chaperone, the things you need know about a new person will be discovered effortlessly.

The warmth of an open heart has the ability arouse warmth another’s heart.

This vehicle of profound seduction creates an environment of limitless possibilities. An open heart allows you shine in its magnificence, as it allows the other person shine in response. Its magnetism draws in the best qualities of any dating experience, and results in true connection. The gem most guarded, is the most powerful<b> resource </font></b>we have for attaining love. In the attempt create a loving connection, it is often our strength we hide. Fearful of revealing our heart, we harden it serve our ego. While seeking the truth in another,
we hide our own truth in the fear we are somehow inadequate.

The power we have is the power we hide.

In closing our heart, we pray the other will open first relieve our fears. How can occur from a closed position? It is our warmth and openness inspires others respond a like manner. An open heart is the hallmark of strength and self-confidence. This unabashed delivery for which no response is needed, proves the validity of its force.

approach dating as a whole individual grounded in self-esteem, is live the power we possess. Its effect is astounding, as it liberates both parties to expand the ritual of dating from interview, to union.

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