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Craving for Intimacy.....
Craving for Intimacy..... Hi...I'm fully aware that this is a adult hook-up site. SEX is the objective, I get it....and that's why I'm here! Not only do I crave hot sex, I also want intimacy. Is that too much to ask for? I had a weekly and it was good, but no Intimacy. I asked a few times, and he shared he couldn't. Is that an issue for men here? He said that he didn't want another woman to fall in love with him...lol...oh lord! I just think he wasn't able to bring it to the table. I can have sex and not get emotionally involved. I can also have Intimacy with no attachments. SO..I ask men out there, is this an ongoing issue? Can you have Intimacy without getting attached? Or women for that fact? I'm very comfortable with the lifestyle...and I understand how it works, I've been in it for a long time. I know vanilla sites are not for me, since I crave SEX and you are never sure if your partner is just as . I've had many experiences while in the lifestyle, and always wondered if Intimacy is part of the deal. Just asking...thanks for reading my blog! I use blog so much more ago, loved it and had many followers. Now, once in a great while I take the time vent. Enjoy your evening!! CHICHI |
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1 post 8/5/2021 10:41 am |
I enjoy intimacy. For me it isnt just about having sex but maybe thats because I am older. I like the whole build up to the actual act itself and yes I believe you can separate the two without becoming attached. I think with age we start to miss the friendship part and the intimacy as much if not more then just getting off, or at least thats what I have found but I guess everyone is different in what they are looking for as well.
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It's not impossible but difficult to achieve. People tend to put labels on everything including "intimacy" which may mean different things to men and women. I could drive hours to meet you enjoy a bite to eat and/or a drink, getting to know each other and if you decide to move a little farther forward, go back to your place and see where it goes. Cuddling is intimate and if you fell asleep with me holding you that would be ok with me. Just two people getting what they need/want that moment. I want sex just as much as anyone else but some days the stars aren't quite aligned. Thanks for giving me the chance to respond.
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For me intimacy is definitely part of the package. But it must not be for a lot of guys. People talk to me like I'm a unicorn. Embrace the suck
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1/31/2022 11:06 am |
For me, can't have one without the other. I have to have some emotional connection. Sure I can blast a good fuck and wLk away....but fulfilling..yes...empty...yes. Would rather the intimacy
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For me sex IS intimacy. I have to feel like I want to to actually do it. I guess I can not compartmentalize the actual act like some people. I have to respect and appreciate my partner on some level and that respect I feel is what I call intimacy. That said there is a point that I have to say I can not cross with a play partner in the vanilla part of my life. That is probably understood by all on a hook up sight (maybe not all....lol) but when I am having sex I crave the intimacies that go along with it at every level from the hunt to the good night kiss.
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2/14/2022 7:01 am |
chichidevane, anytime you would care to talk, I would love to explore your likes and dislikes, past experiences and ideas for the future. I find you facinating......
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