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Blogs > sysper > bicurious blog

more consistent sexuality  

sysper 51M
56 posts
12/9/2018 7:13 pm
more consistent sexuality

i'm looking for more consistent sexuality. overall i prefer women but i have got my eye on the same sex too. i'm not saying there's anything wrong with bisexuality. in fact if i had to judge any sexuality i would say bisexuality or even pansexuality is the best because it gives u the widest understanding of sexuality & most options. but really whatever sexuality u are it's all equally good. getting back to my point, there are times when i'm in the mood sexually for the opposite sex, & sometimes there are times i'm in the mood sexually for the same sex. it's rarely both at the same time. what happens if i'm with someone i love & i'm in love with, who will never be anyone of the same sex, & i wakeup 1 morning & i'm in the mood for some dick? it would go against my special friendship or at least get in the way, & it would be unfair to her because she would deserve more of me than this including sexually. even speaking about right now in my ultimate desires for my life, same sex fantasies don't do much to help me towards those goals. i have got social<b> anxiety </font></b>with the opposite sex especially anyone i could be with, which is why i think fantasizing about guys is a way to cope with that<b> anxiety </font></b>while still being sexual. i get it, attraction to the same sex is ok, so is going for it. also i get sexuality is complicated & being in the mood for 1 at 1 time then all of a sudden being in the mood for the other is "allowed." but it doesn't make life any easier or happier for me & i don't see any advantage for dealing with this difficulty. i don't want this.

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