What a girl wants
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Posted:Apr 24, 2016 12:56 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2016 8:57 pm
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While it's true that this is a "sex site", I for one am completely incapable of having sex with someone with whom I have absolutely no connection/chemistry on a mental level. Maybe it's just me, but I feel it's a given that anyone on this site is wanting sex. Hell, those not on here want sex, they just don't have the courage to say it always. So, in short, I want sex but it needs to be with someone I connect with.
Newsflash.... messaging or IM'ing me with crude comments ("do you like 8" cock?, wanna fuck, nice tits, etc) does not get me excited. Any 15 year old can come up with those lines. I want and need a man who can hold my attention and challenge me intellectually. There's nothing sexier than sincerity first and foremost. Someone who has a mind of his own and is not part of the sheep herd, yet is smart enough to be open and willing to not only hear others thoughts and opinions, but to actually consider them and change his own occasionally if he thinks that another is valid. Or, just to say "that's an interesting way to look at _____" and not judge another for their thoughts.
No, I'm not trying to change anyone, nor be changed. I will decide for myself. But I am open enough to hear another side/opinion of any given concept. Is it too much to ask the same respect from someone else?
Anyway, a really great conversation without the mention of sex at all is by far one of the best ways to turn me on. I know I'm not the only person, female or male, for whom this is true. I just wish more of you would realize that this is not "One size fits all" shopping...
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I'd like to know...
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Posted:Jan 31, 2016 8:17 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2016 9:05 pm
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I really am starting to wonder if I have a problem with sex. Lol! I like sex, a lot, and I always have.  I'm pretty open-minded about it and recently becoming much more open to considering different realms that I have not always been open to or even thought would be enticing at all. Is this something that anyone else has experienced or is going through now??? I'd like to hear from you...
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