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Lesson Learned
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Posted:May 29, 2016 2:12 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2016 1:18 am
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I posted a blog comparing the Adult Dating zone powers that be to the Soup Nazi of Seinfeld fame in complaining that I had to use my points now to view a cam. I was perturbed that I would have to be much more judicious with my cam hopping.
It is probably just coincidence, but soon after the post they take all my points away, thus leaving me with being able to view no cams at all.
Moral of the story I suppose is be careful what you complain about. Things can always get worse.
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Boob Nazis
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Posted:May 24, 2016 11:16 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2016 12:38 pm
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If this were a Seinfeld blog I would say Adult Dating zone has become the Boob Nazis. Now I have to pay points to view a webcam as a Standard Member?
I think this is a horrible idea. I know a lot of women don't like being directed on their cam. I don't blame them. There was always the ability to simply move on to another cam, if a broadcaster wasn't giving what you felt was being looked for. Now, a lot of jackasses will be like "Hey I am having to pay to see this. Take your clothes off." That doesn't make them right. Yet, inevitably, it will happen. Again, just a horrible idea.
You don't want to pay for webcam broadcasts? No more boobs for you Standard webcam viewer. You're through.
Next!!!
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Let's Blog About Sex Baby!
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Posted:May 10, 2016 7:23 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2016 2:47 am
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If you have ever read my Blog then you have probably realized about 95% of what i write about is nonsexual nonsense. Today we help fill the other 5% sexual nonsense quota.
I have had sex. Most of you won't know this about me but i have had 3 from 3 different women. Before anyone thinks i am bragging, i assure you, i am not. If anything it's more of an indictment on me that i can't keep a woman.
You may be asking yourself: Why can't he keep a woman? That's the $64,000 question isn't it. Is it because i could not satisfy them sexually? The truth is i don't know. I probably should know. Yet, i don't. So if i don't know who would know? The past women in my life probably would. It seems a bit late to worry about asking them that now.
I always believed i was satisfying them. If i would have had to wager, i would have put my money on me. Still, what i believed and what actually occurred may have been vastly different things. They could have been faking. I saw "When Harry Met Sally". I watched Meg Ryan's performance. I was watching her act in a movie where i literally knew she was faking and still i believed it was real.
Perhaps the answer lies with my last lover. I am going to tell you about one of the last times we were intimate together. Thinking back on it now, perhaps i was the problem.
I was down there... doing what men are supposed to do down there (or we at least think we are supposed to do) you know pleasuring her... and she tells me to write the Alphabet with my tongue or something. Being who i am, I decided to write a letter to Santa Claus. It went something like this:
Dear Thanta you fat fuck,
I don't thuppose you could help me out and thprinkle thome of your magic pixthy dutht on thith chick to make her climaxth? Ath you can probably tell, my tongue hath gone completely numb, my nothe ith broke, lockjaw mutht thurely be thetting in, my neck ith killing me, my armth ache, and i can't feel anything bewow my elbowth at all. Due to exthweme oxthygen depwivation, i am pretty thure i thit mythelf, and forgot my name, like an hour ago. I'd thettle for a thigh of digthutht and a pat on the head to end my thuffering at thith point. Pweathe Thanta.
Yourth truwy,
Me
Now i don't know a lot about... well, anything really. But what i do know, is it was really fucking barren under our Christmas tree that year.
**Disclaimer**
1. Before someone wants to stake my head to a pike, or burn me in effigy, I am not making fun of those with a speech impediment. I am simply using the "th" for "s" to illustrate the difficulty one would have speaking with a tongue that has gone completely numb.
2. Most of my Blog entries are based in factual events. In some instances Names, Dates, Places, have been changed to protect the innocent. Occasionally, parts or possibly even all of a post will be fictitious. This occurs when the fiction is a more enjoyable read for the audience. Please try to understand the difference. Thank you.
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Posted:May 10, 2016 1:23 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2016 12:28 am
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What is pain? The dictionary definition is: physical suffering or discomfort caused by illness or injury. Ok.
Yet, some people incorporate pain as a form of pleasure into sex.
There is an entire alternative lifestyle devoted to this. People often associate pains in terms of good or bad.
Doctors have a number scale for a patient to describe the level of pain they are feeling. What if my 10 is your 5? What if your 5 is someone else's 1? Is it all really that relative.
Then there is emotional pain which hurts without really hurting. Many say it's an even worse pain.
If you were in pain all the time would you lose the ability to feel good? Conversely, if you were never in pain, wouldn't that also take away the ability to feel good?
In the end I think pain is just a word. Everyone uses it differently to suit their own needs. We all feel pain differently. We all have different levels of tolerance. We learn from it. We grow from having to endure it. We understand how to avoid it when possible, and to minimize it when it's not possible. We accept it's sometimes worth risking to achieve our ultimate goals. We avoid becoming a slave to it.
When someone talks to me about my pain, I can't make them feel what I feel.
Ultimately, there is no life without pain. There is no pain without life.
I didn't accidentally stumble down what could be perceived as a dark path. I was led here by comments made by my former shrink. He surmised that emotional pains of my past dictated events of my future. That my pain fueled my anger, triggered my anxiety, infected my very way of thinking. I got angry at his conjecture. I am more than my pain.
It's been 5 months now. Yet his words are still rattling around in my head. As if he can feel what I am feeling. Think what I am thinking. As if he knows me better than I know myself. My brain is all sharp edges and dark corners. Good luck in there pal.
The unmitigated gall of that quack.
I feel better. My "pain" has diminished.
End rant.
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To all the Moms everywhere
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Posted:May 8, 2016 2:00 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2016 2:54 am
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Someone who loves you whether it's day or night.
Someone who supports you when you are wrong or right.
Someone who will always help you fight the good fight.
That's what Mom means to me.
Someone who forgives all your stupidity.
Someone who nurtures your creativity.
Someone who teaches you about civility.
That's what Mom means to me.
Someone who warms you when the World seems cold.
Someone who always offers a hand to hold.
Someone who doesn't judge you for your mistakes untold.
That's what Mom means to me.
Someone who doesn't blame you for the times you failed.
Someone who is compassionate when your ship has sailed.
Someone who stands by you when everyone else has bailed.
That's what Mom means to me.
Someone who deserves to always have her say.
Someone who helps you always find your way.
Someone who deserves her own special day.
That's what Mom means to me.
Happy Mother's Day!
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The plight of the Agoraphobe
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Posted:May 3, 2016 2:48 am
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2016 2:37 am
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I stare out my front door as the world comes crashing down.
Have I the strength to take a step? Or in weakness shall I drown.
The Sun it burns my eyes, The evil, fiery light.
It strengthens my resolve. I exist in dark of night.
What have I become? Am i human still.
A slave to the unseen. No semblance of free will.
The sharp edges tear my brain. A simple breath so hard to make.
I don't recognize myself. How much more is left to take?
Yet more of me slips away. Mere fragments left for the taking.
As i languish in this Hell, inside a prison of my own making.
Life it seems so cruel. A journey without end.
When you are stripped away to nothing, without Hope, Sanity, or Friends.
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10 things I hate about you
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Posted:Jan 19, 2012 10:56 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2016 7:05 pm
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I hate the way you smiled at me, that twinkle in your eye
Talk of how miserable he made you feel, then you'd start to cry.
I hate the little lies you told, how nothing would keep us apart.
You were always too scared to leave, you knew that from the start.
I hate that you were my best friend, such a painful loss
In times like these, it should be to you i'd turn, yet alone i bear this cross.
I hate the way you made me feel, you always seemed sincere.
Telling me our situation was temporary, you were tired of living in fear.
I hate that i believed your words, going against my gut.
All the way to the bitter end, even as doors began to shut.
I hate that you are so far away, seems such a cruel fate.
Our destiny was supposed to hold so much more, now it's far too late.
I hate the fact you would not take a chance, choosing him over me.
You often said you felt like a prisoner there, yet opted not to be free.
I hate that you are in denial, blaming yourself that he is mean.
You deserve so much more, you should be treated like a Queen.
I hate that i just let you go, without putting up a fight.
I was afraid it would involve your , i felt that wasn't right.
It's been 4 years now without a word, that's sad but it's true.
Yet what i hate the most of all, is that i'm still in love with you.
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To Blog or not to Blog
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Posted:Jan 18, 2012 8:20 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2016 4:51 pm
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If that is the question, the answer to me is simply: Yes.
However, i think the greater question is, What to Blog about.
Anyone who has ever read any of my blog posts knows that i blog without any sense of direction. I am who i am, and far too jaded to change that, at this point in my life.
Therefore, the question is posed to you as the reader. What do you blog about? (assuming that you do) What do you enjoy from others blogs? Are you a person who enjoys the written word? Are you more into looking at the pictures you can find in the blogs? Do you just like to know what others are thinking or doing in this Reality TV world we live in?
Personally, i enjoy reading. Anything written is worthy of my attention at least for the amount of time it takes to read it. Sometimes, the reading does offer me an insight to a person's thought processes. That is neither a good nor bad thing to me. Every scenario is different from person to person. We all have to decide for ourselves, if an experience was good or bad, on an individual basis.
Having said all that, there are some women on this site that post their pictures, which makes reading their posts more challenging due the distraction of looking/drooling at them.
Some are as follows:SandraD1000, ladytatas, ninner1998, gottaring, sweetest_wet, flirtatiousone4u, MzGoddessDomina, Pussnbooties, etc...
The list could go on ,and i don't mean to slight anyone not mentioned, i'm just citing some examples of blogs i enjoy.
The point is these ladies can and will enhance far more than your mind if you take the privilege to peruse their blogs.
Ultimately, i appreciate all of the people on Adult Dating zone who make up the population of Blogville. Without you, this place would be just a shell of itself.
Happy Blogging! 
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Holiday Blues
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Posted:Dec 21, 2011 1:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2014 11:48 am
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The Holidays are supposed to be a time of cheer and joyous celebration of the people in our lives that we love. Ironically, many people experience feelings of depression or the "Holiday Blues" during this festive season.
There will always be good times and bad, and I have no mystical powers (much to my chagrin) to alleviate all these feelings that can make the Holidays trying.
However, I want to provide a "Top 10 list" as it were, of some things that one can do that may help bring back those feelings of warmth and happiness this Holiday Season.
1. Relax and eat a Holiday cookie: It sounds simple enough right? If you don't have any Holiday cookies make some. My sister can burn a pot of water. Yet, she manages to make Christmas cookies every year.
They smell great, they look great, and they taste great. The correlation between the senses and memory can lift one's spirits remarkably. Seriously, how bad can you really feel while eating a delicious Holiday cookie?
I would caution that this process will likely be well served to be exercised in moderation. Otherwise, you may have the Post-Holiday Blues from the 10 pounds you gained imbibing in Christmas Cheer.
2. Sing a Christmas song: It doesn't matter if it's a traditional song or contemporary just sing.
If you know a place that does karaoke go belt out a couple of Holiday favorites there. If you are one of the blessed, that sings well, you'll have the whole place smiling. That's a great feeling. Everyone can always use a little more cheer, whether they are feeling blue or not. If you can't sing, encourage the crowd to sing with you. The only thing more fun than singing badly in front of a bunch of drunken strangers is singing badly with a bunch of drunken strangers. Everyone will have a great time.
However, you don't have to go to a bar. This exercise can be done in one's living room, kitchen, shower etc... You can't spell cleansing without sing and cleansing is good. So sing and sing loudly. The louder the better. How many people have you ever seen that looked miserable while singing? Not many I can assure you.
3. Call a loved one: It doesn't matter who it is so long as it is someone you care about and in return they care about you. Tell them you just wanted to hear their voice on the other end. Tell them you love them. Wish them a wonderful Holiday Season.
I need to point out here it's important to call not text. Text is cold, it lacks emotion. You can "lol" all day long and it will never feel as good as hearing an actual person laugh. Almost everyone has a loved one of some type they can call.
If you don't, then send me a message, and you can call me. I may not be a loved one but I will be a sincere, friendly voice that genuinely does care about your wellbeing this Holiday Season. There is something to be said for that as opposed to feeling depressed and alone.
4. Participate in a charitable cause: There are a lot of options. Some require some money. Some require only your time. Some may require a bit of both. The one that is right for you is more a matter of personal preference.
I have participated in Toys for Tots, Make-A-Wish, volunteering at both a 's Hospital and an assisted living center for the elderly, as well as volunteering to help with the foodservice for the homeless. They were all very rewarding for me. I love so those were probably my most rewarding but they all have equal merit.
It's important not to overextend yourself. If you take on too much it becomes basically a chore. That leads to stress or burden and negates the very feeling you were trying to achieve. It feels good to help others. It gives you perspective on your own life. Most importantly it helps bring joy to those who need it most and that is a great thing.
5. Smile at a stranger, wish them all the best this season: Our society has become so fast paced that many of life's so called "common courtesies" have been forgotten or thrown by the wayside.
It doesn't cost anything to give someone a smile or to wish them a wonderful Holiday Season. It seems trivial but you'd be amazed at some of the facial expressions you'll see stemming from such a simple thing. People are often shocked because they just don't see it anymore.
Hold the door for someone. Help an elderly person with their groceries or getting something off a shelf. Bend down and look a in the eye as you interact with them about what they asked Santa for.
It is kind of like the theory of paying it forward in Holiday style. Some of the people you interact with, will interact with others, in kind. How can that not feel good to ignite such a flame of goodwill.
6. Watch National Lampoons Christmas Vacation: It doesn't necessarily have to be this particular movie. However, of all the Christmas movies this one blends a festive message with comedy better than most. It brings laughter. Laughter is good. It's hard to feel down if you are enjoying a good laugh.
7. Be unexpected: It's the Holidays don't be so uptight. Let loose. Show up to that party you had decided not to attend. Talk loudly. Become the center of attention.
I know people who have told me they are just too shy to do this when I have suggested it in the past for various occasions. Again, it's Christmas. What are people going to do? Scold you for having fun. Who do you know that doesn't want to have fun at any party much less a Holiday party?
If you are feeling depressed and blue being who you are, and everything else has failed: Be who you are not.
8. Be a secret Santa: Unfortunately sometimes politics get involved in this one but those pitfalls can be worked around. If office politics dictate you can't give a random gift to office workers for whatever reason, circumvent the rules.
You can give a gift to the courier that has your office on their route. The maintenance people or janitorial staff can also be an option. In many cases the Receptionist will fall outside the traditional office worker barrier as they don't work directly with you.
It shouldn't be anything extravagant as you don't want to cause feelings of jealousy or have your motives brought into question. It feels good to give. It feels even better to see the smiles a surprise token will bring.
I have actually had some ladies break down in tears they were so touched I thought of them. If a 5 dollar box of chocolate can bring tears of joy and gratitude it was the best 5 bucks I ever spent.
9. Write: Again the forum is unimportant. Christmas Cards either paper or electronic are always nice this time of year. It can be a blog like I am doing here. It can be a short story on a legal pad. Perhaps, a simple letter of thanks to someone you appreciate.
Writing is a great way of expression. It allows others to share in your expressions and possibly find something meaningful in it. Anything that brings meaning to even one person is an effort well spent.
You don't have to be eloquent. Hell, I am barely coherent much of the time. You don't have to be verbose. It's not required to express an extensive vocabulary. It's the meaning of what you say as opposed to the words you use to convey your meaning.
The simple act of expressing yourself. allowing yourself to let your emotions flow through you into form, will help defeat those "Holiday Blues". Should you be fortunate that your words help uplift someone else, that's an added blessing.
10. Have a couple drinks, strip down to your underwear, and go outside screaming "Here, Rudolph, Here boy":
I know what you're thinking ..... I need my own padded room and a lithium pill the size of a handball. Bear with me, this is for that absolute worst case scenario of the "Holiday Blues". I wouldn't recommend this to anyone but the very desperate that are bordering on a breakdown.
The premise is simple: You've exhausted all options and have nowhere else to turn. Some key points to remember is don't do this too late at night and don't wear underwear that is too revealing.
Basically, you stagger around the neighborhood screaming "Here Rudolph, Here boy". When the cops arrive, and trust me they will, the cop is going to ask you just hat the hell you think you are doing.
Look him squarely in the eyes and say " I was having some of my favorite liquid Holiday Cheer when my Rudolph lawn ornament suddenly sprang to life. I was going to shoot him but he promised to take me to the North Pole to meet Santa Clause. I ran out the door as fast as I could but the mangy little bastard evaded me. Now I am trying to find him. Wanna help?
You will either make this Cop's Holiday Season and he/she will you home with a chuckle and a warning or you'll spend New Years in jail.
If you get away with it the exhilaration of pulling it off and giving the Cop a great Holiday story for years to come will make you feel wonderful.
If you aren't so lucky and end up in jail ..... then you will at least have a 100% legitimate reason to have the "Holiday Blues"
Happy Holidays, everyone. I wish you all nothing but the best this holiday Season.
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A little christmas cheer
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Posted:Dec 15, 2011 12:26 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2016 12:01 am
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I wrote this for my blog as i tend to put some Christmas-Adult Dating zone relevant posts on my blog this time of the year. Then i decided to submit it for the Naughty Carol contest as well. I doubt i win but i did write it, may as well have it looked at. I have also decided to post it on my regular blog for anyone to see that may stumble across my blog without looking at the contest entries. It may not be for everyone but someone might enjoy it. If 1 person gets a chuckle from it then it was worth it. It should be set to the tune of Winter Wonderland if you are trying to sing-a-long in your head, or out loud.
Merry Christmas everyone.
My neighbor squeals, I am listening
In her bed, his cock is glistening
Oh what a sight, she's riding tonight
Peeping thru my neighbor's windowpane
As they change their position
I move too, for better vision
Damn what a smile, she loves doggy style
Peeping through my neighbor's windowpane
In the kitchen i can see her stove's on
I bet she's making cookies golden brown
In the bedroom she's still getting pounded
Damn, i wish that i were this ass-clown
Holy shit, did she see me
She grabbed the phone, why could that be
As i stand in the snow, i think Oh fucking No
Peeping thru my neighbor's winsowpane.
The sounds of sirens fill the night air,
As my neighbor gives me the death-stare
Oh what the hell, Looks like New Years in jail
For Peeeeping thru my neighbor's windoooowwwpane
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Naughty by Nature?
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Posted:Oct 28, 2011 12:46 pm
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2011 2:49 pm
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I had a friend visit me for a few days recently. She stumbled across this website when she was using my PC. She asked me what it was and i told her. She asked if i minded if she looked around the site. I told her she could do anything she pleased to make herself at home. She perused the site, as much as one can peruse as a standard member, and apparently became intrigued with it.
Upon returning home she made her own account. She told me that her intentions were to get on cam and talk, flirt, but moreso free herself of her inhibitions and "get naked on cam". As of yet, she's been too scared to actually shed her clothing, however.
She said she had several concerns she had to factor into her decision she hadn't really thought of initially. She's a high ranking executive of a major corporation and worries about professional ramifications. These are valid concerns. However, there are many ways to maintain anonymity while being on camera. She's smart enough to realize that despite not admitting as much. The very core of the problem is she's just scared. It isn't who she is.
Once, we took a 10 day trip to the Bahamas. The setting was much as i'd imagine the shooting of a Baywatch episode. Everywhere, hotties running around in very reavealing bikinis. She wore knee length shorts and a t-shirt for most of the trip. The one day at the beach she wore a 1 piece bathing suit like you'd expect your Mom to have worn. Exhibitionism, just isn't who she is. Yet, she has this strong urge or need to do this if she can gather the courage to do so.
I know what you're thinking. Is there a point to all this inane babbling and backstory? Yes, there is a point. Here it is: If you are not an ehibitionist have you ever found yourself "exposed" publicly in one venue or another? Why do we desire to do or experience the things that are clearly opposite of our everyday selves? Is stepping out of the "norm" inherent in all of us?
I don't have any definitive answers to these questions. Perhaps, you do. Perhaps, no one does and there are no definitive answers. I know this girl very well and i am trying to understand this need she is feeling. I'm just curious by nature.
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Rain
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Posted:Oct 13, 2011 7:34 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2014 2:44 pm
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It's strange to me how rain can be both good and bad. If it rains when the weather is warm i love it. However, if it rains in cold weather i hate it. If it rains when i'm driving it sucks. Alternatively, if i am passenger it's cool to watch the rain. Isn't making love in the rain great? Yet, the time i had to run home in the rain naked was just brutal (long story for a different blogging episode) I love the smell of the rain outside. Again, indoors it's musty and unpleasant. Playing in the rain as a is fun. Carrying the into the house with water up to your ankles as a parent, not so much. I suppose many things in life are this way but it's raining outside as i type this and it just popped into my head, as i was complaining about the cold.
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