Educated, engineer, creative, and fun Why am I here? This is confusing, I know but friendships first. I talk to women, but there is no desire to hop into bed. There is no agenda to my friendship. If we have a strong connection and mutual desire, sure. But I am primarily here to get to know people. Yes, sometimes the friendships don't involve sex. Maybe that is my kink. Reach out: If you are nervous about talking to a stranger or if you are shy. I put people at ease. If you are sexually free and confident. Maybe not in real life but you know you are meant for this. If you are fun and kind. Not kind to me, to be precise - I am not needy for it, but if you have a kind attitude to life and people, in general. Many of us are living out our lives in conservative circles; we'd rather not cheat or hide but here we are. If you are spiritual. If you want to share things in your life and want someone trustworthy to share it with. Friendship is key. Feelings are good! You feel tender to your partner, like, and even love them to an extent. Yes, yes, I know. It's risky. Fuck, this whole thing is risky, why stop at caring for the ones you sleep with? They go through life situations, and you gotta do what you can to walk with them. I am a Christian and deeply spiritual which flies in the face of how much I love my sexual side. I didn't say I have it all figured out. Just content and confident with where I am. I started on this journey late in life which is probably why I am so... ordinary. For example, I am definitely a dom, but that stays in bed. I tend toward feminist tendencies, so the subs I have been with are strong women. They could be switches, but not with me. ;) I honestly don't think I belong on this site. My "kinks" are so vanilla that I am scared that kink test will laugh at me. I'll take it one day.

My Ideal Person Fun, kind, friendly, and fcreative. And deeply sensual. You know, you've known since you were so high that you love love the senses. Now you love yourself.